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  • #31
    Apparently the cps are asking the court for permission for an extension more timewasting
    No need for revenge. Just sit back and wait. Those who hurt you will eventually screw up themselves and if you're lucky, God will let you watch

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    • #32
      So hurt and angry

      Well it's not their lives hanging in the balance, they have all the time in the world,I wish one of them would get accused then they might get an understanding of the enormous stress their time wasting causes. I still think having said all that maybe it's good you are clearly not 'banged to rights'
      Keep calm and carry on that's all you can do for now .

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      • #33
        Do you knnow why they have done this? Very frustrating for you - keep strong
        "Only love can light the mirror of your soul" - Chris de Burgh

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        • #34
          Originally posted by myhome View Post
          Do you knnow why they have done this? Very frustrating for you - keep strong
          No idea hopefully they are seeing through her lies solicitor said something about more info from the police
          No need for revenge. Just sit back and wait. Those who hurt you will eventually screw up themselves and if you're lucky, God will let you watch

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          • #35
            Originally posted by Yorkster View Post
            I don't trust the police my bail says not to approach my wife if I was in town and bumped in to her I would ring solicitor to tell them then ring local police and tell them too just so it's on record I didn't approach her . She has in past rang police and said I did when I've not .
            You would be reasonable and wise to contact your solicitor before the police.
            When I was falsely accused by my wife,I was exactly like you.

            I started to sleep around 4 hours a night ,on jackets ,on the floor in an office at work.
            One week after I went back to the police station for rebail.

            And then...

            I went back twice to another police station as I had only what I was wearing (and a dark blue sport tracksuit from when I have been arrested if anyone is interested )
            I just wanted to see my son.


            I have been charged and read from a police officer statement that I went back to this police station to say that I was guilty.
            When I went to Crown court,believe me,I had to explain myself properly,without any doubt from the jury.

            I am sure there are considerate and honest police officers,I did meet some I am fair.
            I do have faith in justice as well.
            But I had enough experience to find evidence,keep the original for myself ,give a copy to the solicitor and only display the original it in Crown court.
            Last I would only trust a good solicitor, a barrister (and myself).

            I will never forget this police officer who did welcome me,supported me,offered me a coffe and some tissues while I was devastated.
            And when I read the statement...(a stab in the back).

            Take care and I hope you are feeling better.
            Last edited by Boys don't cry; 30 January 2013, 12:04 AM.
            Non,je ne regrette rien.

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            • #36
              Thanks for the reply bdc . I have had quite a few dealings with the police since my arrest in August .
              Mostly down to hassle from her family . They have done all sorts , from harassing phone calls to text messages from her brother laughing because he can see my kids and I can't . My wife has sent texts to my sister gloating about things , missed calls on my phone from my house number to her doing things in front of my family members .

              I even had to get her brother served with an harassment order . All done to get me to break my bail . A couple weeks ago I was in town and walked into a shop saw her girlfriend ,didn't even recognise my wife as she has changed her look so much . I said to the girlfriend , so your the reason that my wife won't let me see my kids .
              Needless to say next morning phone call of the police she reported that I approached her in the said shop and spoke to her , police asked me to go to station went in front of judge that morning and they basically asked me to walk away if I see her . That's what I do .

              My solicitor explained to the judge about her not allowing me to see my kids and that I haven't seen the kids since beginning of September and that we live in a small town . All in all it was a total of 3 hours from the phone call off the police to going to court to been on the train back to my sisters house . Total waste of tax payers money .

              It has now got to the stage where I'm scared of going in to town or any local shops in case I bump into any of them I even got a nasty letter off her solicitor more or less telling me to keep out of town , just in case she goes . Really can't wait for this to go to court then I can prove her lies and hopefully get back home to my kids and her move out
              No need for revenge. Just sit back and wait. Those who hurt you will eventually screw up themselves and if you're lucky, God will let you watch

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              • #37
                Hi Yorkster

                having just read all your post i can't belive how similar our stories are, you seem very much the family man just as I was.

                I so feel for you having not seen your children for so long it must be unbarable, how do you cope with it?

                I would very much like to have a chat sometime, maybee you could PM me as im not sure how to, or if i am able to.

                PS im having to use this new username as i can't log in to browndown77

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                • #38
                  Originally posted by browndown777 View Post
                  Hi Yorkster

                  having just read all your post i can't belive how similar our stories are, you seem very much the family man just as I was.

                  I so feel for you having not seen your children for so long it must be unbarable, how do you cope with it?

                  I would very much like to have a chat sometime, maybee you could PM me as im not sure how to, or if i am able to.

                  PS im having to use this new username as i can't log in to browndown77
                  Hi mate you can't send pms until you have been a member for 10 days unless a mod will send you my details as this is a public forum and people can see your posts so please do be carful when posting
                  No need for revenge. Just sit back and wait. Those who hurt you will eventually screw up themselves and if you're lucky, God will let you watch

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                  • #39
                    Ok mate thats fine, hopefully someone will sort my other account out soon as i would like to get back on and use that one.

                    Are there any moderators that could Help? or do i have to wait for the administrator to get back to me.......

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                    • #40
                      I can't change your username but can (I hope) link your original and new threads together if you wish; hopefully no-one will then notice the extra 7
                      'What doesn't kill you makes you stronger'

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                      • #41
                        casehardened

                        That would be great if you could do that

                        Thanks

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                        • #42
                          Originally posted by browndown777 View Post
                          casehardened

                          That would be great if you could do that

                          Thanks
                          I've added your first post as browndown777 as an explanation onto the tail of your thread which you started as browndown77 so hopefully you can continue to post on there as 777.

                          http://www.daftmoo.org.uk/mooforum/s...sed-me-of-rape

                          (Sorry Yorkster for going 'off topic' on your thread!)
                          'What doesn't kill you makes you stronger'

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                          • #43
                            Trial ended today !!!!! Not guilty
                            No need for revenge. Just sit back and wait. Those who hurt you will eventually screw up themselves and if you're lucky, God will let you watch

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                            • #44
                              Yorkster found NOT GUILTY! WHEYYY HEYYYYY! Bubbly wine time methinks....

                              Garfield on the moon_prv.gif

                              People Appealing Convictions of Sexual Offences ~http://www.pacso.co.uk

                              PAFAA details ~ https://pacso.co.uk/pafaa-people-aga...ions-of-abuse/

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                              • #45
                                Well done for being more confident towards the end Yorkster.

                                Enjoy freedom, your children will be proud of you.

                                Take care.

                                Non,je ne regrette rien.

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