Ex now out of prison - scared

[Moodle]

Getting threats - not from him - from people I don't know Not sure what to do as no hard evidence

[AmandaF]

I would alert the cops anyway- you shouldn't have to live like that.

[Moodle]

tried that but there's no hard evidence linking him Flowers left on door. Someone came up to me on train home and said We're watching you then walked off. His family is like the UK mafia - been told not to tell anyone so proper scared

[hello88]

I've been having racist threats from a neighbour, particulally (sorry spelling) on the school run, i decided to carry a dictaphone (voice recorder doo dah) around, everytime i went out, and probably worth getting a camera put up, i know there expensive but its worth it for peace of mind.. this is the dictaphone i use: http://www.argos.co.uk/static/Produc...er/2791362.htm

hope this helps, other than that i can't really help much more, apart from maybe get in contact with your local PCSO and ask him/her to keep an eye open of any unusual activity around your house???

xx

[Rights Fighter]

I know the feeling. I had an ex who stalked me. I had to move right out of the area.

Good idea about the voice recorder although you would have to check it is switched on while you are out, and that would drain the batteries. Do you have a phone that records? I know some are better than others. As you are out and about you can have the phone out to your ear or pretending to text and then switch the recorder part on if you are approached. Mind you, that means you would have to walk around with your mobile out, and if you are in an area where there are opportune thefts that might not be a good idea.

Can you go out accompanied (a witness?)

Ask the flower shop who delivered the flowers where they came from. They might not tell you the name of the sender but they should be able to tell you where the order was placed.