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That's precisely what I was trying to say. Don't think I'm trying to take sides here, because I'm not. I said that both sides of the victim coin if you will should show mutual respect for each other's experiences; and I stand by that.
What I do think; and what seldom seems to happen on this forum, is that we should start to offer more support for victims of rape when they first post on this site. How often do we see victims of rape posting on this site and nobody ever answers them? This I think is wrong; and I think it would be to this forum's credit if we changed that.
I know it won't be easy; and I don't judge anyone who doesn't wish to comment. Most people's experiences have been worse than mine, in fact, if I'm honest virtually everyone has had a worse time than me.
When I first visited this forum, RF and CH were almost single-handedly holding the fort for everybody who came on it. The flavour has changed now, a lot of people are offering each other support and it's heart warming to see.
The point I am trying to make is that I would like to see us take this a step further and offer support to the victims of rape who post here too.
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What I do think; and what seldom seems to happen on this forum, is that we should start to offer more support for victims of rape when they first post on this site. How often do we see victims of rape posting on this site and nobody ever answers them? This I think is wrong; and I think it would be to this forum's credit if we changed that.
I know it won't be easy; and I don't judge anyone who doesn't wish to comment. Most people's experiences have been worse than mine, in fact, if I'm honest virtually everyone has had a worse time than me.
When I first visited this forum, RF and CH were almost single-handedly holding the fort for everybody who came on it. The flavour has changed now, a lot of people are offering each other support and it's heart warming to see.
The point I am trying to make is that I would like to see us take this a step further and offer support to the victims of rape who post here too.
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