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Hi, I'm looking for some advice for a friend of mine.
My friend is married and a few months ago, when her relationship with her husband was not going very well, developed a sort of crush on a guy from work and sent him a letter detailing her feelings. The guy said he wasn't interested and that was that.
Ever since, however, the guy has developed an unhealthy infatuation with her - following her, telephoning and pretending to be from different companies and going to the same social places as her, dressed up in disguise.
Now the scary bit - somehow, she says that this guy has managed to steal her keys from her bag and have a front door key cut. He has then gone into the house on two occasions, drugged her and raped her.
She says that she remembers something being put over her mouth and she could hear and feel everything that was going on but could not wake up. Does anyone know of any chemical or otherwise which could have brought on these symptoms??
She will not go to the police about this in case her husband finds out, confronts the guy and he produces the letter she had originally written.
She has said things at work to this guy and he knows that she knows what has happened, even though she was drugged at the time.
I really don't know what to do - ever since she told me about this I have not slept a wink. I am really worried for her as she keeps saying she just wants god to come and take her one night.
It's a catch 22 situation and whatever happens someone is going to get hurt, but I can't just sit back and do nothing about this.
Candy
xxx
Hi, I'm looking for some advice for a friend of mine.
My friend is married and a few months ago, when her relationship with her husband was not going very well, developed a sort of crush on a guy from work and sent him a letter detailing her feelings. The guy said he wasn't interested and that was that.
Ever since, however, the guy has developed an unhealthy infatuation with her - following her, telephoning and pretending to be from different companies and going to the same social places as her, dressed up in disguise.
Now the scary bit - somehow, she says that this guy has managed to steal her keys from her bag and have a front door key cut. He has then gone into the house on two occasions, drugged her and raped her.
She says that she remembers something being put over her mouth and she could hear and feel everything that was going on but could not wake up. Does anyone know of any chemical or otherwise which could have brought on these symptoms??
She will not go to the police about this in case her husband finds out, confronts the guy and he produces the letter she had originally written.
She has said things at work to this guy and he knows that she knows what has happened, even though she was drugged at the time.
I really don't know what to do - ever since she told me about this I have not slept a wink. I am really worried for her as she keeps saying she just wants god to come and take her one night.
It's a catch 22 situation and whatever happens someone is going to get hurt, but I can't just sit back and do nothing about this.
Candy
xxx
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