hi
im looking for advise ,i was drugged and raped aged 15 , i thought i knew the guy as we had been speaking for a while and he invited me to a party so i accepted , i didnt go to any party instead as soon as i went into his van he drugged me hidden in a drink of juice i was in and out of conciseness i felt paralysis and unable to speak properly , i woke up the next day in a strange house miles away from my home town and a blood stained bed and a used condom wrapper i wasnt sure what had happened as i was only young and Naive , so i left and went home , i was in a lot of pain so i went to my local clinic for a check up i had a swab done , and the nurse asked if i had sex in the past few days as far as i knew i had not so i replied no , i think she just assumed i was embarrassed but i genuinely hadn't had sex as far as i was aware , so i left and it wasnt until i had my first sexual partner at 17 that it all started piecing together , my boyfriend fell out with me he said i lied about being a virgin and i didnt lie , all i know about the guy is obviously his looks height etc and his first name and his place of employment , if i get hold of my medical records ( if they still have them from back then ) what is the chances of a charge ? i have not gone to the police in the past due to fear but i am not scared any more and i have a teenage daughter and the thought of him doing that to someone else sickens me ..any usful advise would be much appreciated ( we live and learn ) thank you in advance xx
im looking for advise ,i was drugged and raped aged 15 , i thought i knew the guy as we had been speaking for a while and he invited me to a party so i accepted , i didnt go to any party instead as soon as i went into his van he drugged me hidden in a drink of juice i was in and out of conciseness i felt paralysis and unable to speak properly , i woke up the next day in a strange house miles away from my home town and a blood stained bed and a used condom wrapper i wasnt sure what had happened as i was only young and Naive , so i left and went home , i was in a lot of pain so i went to my local clinic for a check up i had a swab done , and the nurse asked if i had sex in the past few days as far as i knew i had not so i replied no , i think she just assumed i was embarrassed but i genuinely hadn't had sex as far as i was aware , so i left and it wasnt until i had my first sexual partner at 17 that it all started piecing together , my boyfriend fell out with me he said i lied about being a virgin and i didnt lie , all i know about the guy is obviously his looks height etc and his first name and his place of employment , if i get hold of my medical records ( if they still have them from back then ) what is the chances of a charge ? i have not gone to the police in the past due to fear but i am not scared any more and i have a teenage daughter and the thought of him doing that to someone else sickens me ..any usful advise would be much appreciated ( we live and learn ) thank you in advance xx
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