I am posting the below topic in response to a suggestion by Webmaster and Mol12. I think it could open an interesting debate, and would like to hear other people's opinions. The post is as follows:
I think Diana's comment is very interesting....with regard to the whole rape/false allegation discussion.
I think it is true to say that a lot of women will participate in sexual activity fairly willingly, but later feel grubby, ashamed of themselves, and a bit used. Maybe this is because they were being unfaithful to a partner, or were very drunk, and it seemed like a good idea at the time. I think most women today have experienced this kind of feeling, and it is not pleasant.
However, there are some who exonerate themselves of responsibility by reclassifying it in their heads as being non-consensual. They reassure themselves that they were not willing participants, and the blame for irresponsible behaviour is shifted from themselves, to the other person. If they repeat this often enough to themselves, they really come to believe it.
Quite how it gets from this to a false allegation made to police and resulting in a full trial, i can't rightly say. As a reasonable, honest person I can't ever really understand what makes people do such things. (nor can a jury, by and large,). I would guess that the "victim" makes the mistake of sharing her "ordeal" with a friend, who urges her to report it, and as she cannot bear to admit to her lies, the police become involved.
I think Diana's comment is very interesting....with regard to the whole rape/false allegation discussion.
I think it is true to say that a lot of women will participate in sexual activity fairly willingly, but later feel grubby, ashamed of themselves, and a bit used. Maybe this is because they were being unfaithful to a partner, or were very drunk, and it seemed like a good idea at the time. I think most women today have experienced this kind of feeling, and it is not pleasant.
However, there are some who exonerate themselves of responsibility by reclassifying it in their heads as being non-consensual. They reassure themselves that they were not willing participants, and the blame for irresponsible behaviour is shifted from themselves, to the other person. If they repeat this often enough to themselves, they really come to believe it.
Quite how it gets from this to a false allegation made to police and resulting in a full trial, i can't rightly say. As a reasonable, honest person I can't ever really understand what makes people do such things. (nor can a jury, by and large,). I would guess that the "victim" makes the mistake of sharing her "ordeal" with a friend, who urges her to report it, and as she cannot bear to admit to her lies, the police become involved.
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