Son on bail...confused about procedures

[Darcy]

Is there anyone who could answer a question privately?...i can't ask it without giving a few details....and i'm worried about publicly posting. Many Thanks x

[joyk]

Thinking of you

Hi,

Just me wondering how you are holding up. Thinking of you.

[london]

I think the person u would need to msg would be Rights Fighter...She normaly pops in now and then

[Rights Fighter]

I can't help anybody who does not give information.

More to the point, we have to be aware of the fact that just because somebody arrives on a forum like this looking for help, it does not always mean that they are innocent.

Obviously I am not saying that this is the case here - what I am saying is that I don't jump in and help everybody who asks, without giving any information. It does not have to be "nitty gritty" either, just a broad basic background.

[Darcy]

I can't help anybody who does not give information.

More to the point, we have to be aware of the fact that just because somebody arrives on a forum like this looking for help, it does not always mean that they are innocent.

Obviously I am not saying that this is the case here - what I am saying is that I don't jump in and help everybody who asks, without giving any information. It does not have to be "nitty gritty" either, just a broad basic background.

I was only asking if i could PM someone....obviously i'd have given details in the PM. I'm sorry but i find your reply rather abrupt and unnecessary. I came for help, which i am very grateful to the ones who offered to help. But now i'm upset by your reply so i won't be coming back here. To the few people i have spoke to here, good luck, and thankyou for listening to my rants i wish you all well.

[Rights Fighter]

What seems to have gone unnoticed here, is that nobody on this forum is a professional and nobody (as far as I know) gets paid for posting up advice or offering support. So please do not expect too much.

My whole life revolves around helping the falsely accused and to be honest I do sometimes get a bit fed up with people who assume that I (and others on this forum) will drop everything and come running on little or no information.

At any one time I can be working on several appeals at the same time and I just do not have the time to dissect a very long PM, with no background, as is often the case. Then I get criticised for not jumping straight in.

If you or anybody else requires advice and assistance then you need to remember this.

[RFLH]

Hope everything goes well for today Darcy. I shall be thinking of you both.

[Darcy]

What seems to have gone unnoticed here, is that nobody on this forum is a professional and nobody (as far as I know) gets paid for posting up advice or offering support. So please do not expect too much.

My whole life revolves around helping the falsely accused and to be honest I do sometimes get a bit fed up with people who assume that I (and others on this forum) will drop everything and come running on little or no information.

At any one time I can be working on several appeals at the same time and I just do not have the time to dissect a very long PM, with no background, as is often the case. Then I get criticised for not jumping straight in.

If you or anybody else requires advice and assistance then you need to remember this.

Rights Fighter..i am sorry about my last post, i am overly-sensitive at the minute as today is the day i'll gat the answers to my questions. Please accept my apology, i was upset about today and i took your post personally, which was wrong of me.

I understand that people are busy thats why i asked first who i could send a PM to rather than just sending one as i did have an idea who was best to speak to on here. I haven't made many posts, i did request some be removed back in November, so i am not as new as i seem, and i have spent a lot of time reading on here. I could not even give a basic background, because the main detail of my case could give my identity away immediately.