Hello There,
Looking for some advice.. Not been accussed of Rape but a sexual offence none the less and we all get hit with the same stick here in the UK.. Basically I am already on the dreaded register for an indecent offence in 2002. (I groped a woman when I shouldnt have!!) I was extremely drunk at the time and I pleaded guilty at the earliest opportunity and have complied with the offenders register since. My troubles began at work being accused of sexual harrassment on 2 occassions, for which my employer diligently interviewed myself and my accuser. Anyway my employer recognised that there were flaws in some of her story and only punished me for placing my hands on this womans waist, which I admitted. A few months on I have been arrested and charged with 3 counts of sexual assault... due to me being open with my visiting police officer about what was going on. This woman didnt go forward to complain, the police chased her up!! Anyway my only defence is that her story has slightly changed in parts from the one she told my employer.
She now says I have kissed her when her original statement to the employer stated that I only tried. There are also a few other discrepancies all of which have made things sound worse. I have denied all allegations, but due to my past bad character I'm probably likely to get locked up regardless & now lose my job which is what she wants, and didnt get through work. I'm in a situation where I have to prove innocence rather than them prove guilt!! She actually showed me pictures of herself on her mobile phone and also showed me her breasts during one of our encounters which she fully denies, but its me in the doc not her. No one has tried to substantiate my claims about the phone!!?? Its almost as if they dont believe me... So like any Sex offender theyl lock me up and throw away the key.... Any advice on this rather tricky situation???
Looking for some advice.. Not been accussed of Rape but a sexual offence none the less and we all get hit with the same stick here in the UK.. Basically I am already on the dreaded register for an indecent offence in 2002. (I groped a woman when I shouldnt have!!) I was extremely drunk at the time and I pleaded guilty at the earliest opportunity and have complied with the offenders register since. My troubles began at work being accused of sexual harrassment on 2 occassions, for which my employer diligently interviewed myself and my accuser. Anyway my employer recognised that there were flaws in some of her story and only punished me for placing my hands on this womans waist, which I admitted. A few months on I have been arrested and charged with 3 counts of sexual assault... due to me being open with my visiting police officer about what was going on. This woman didnt go forward to complain, the police chased her up!! Anyway my only defence is that her story has slightly changed in parts from the one she told my employer.
She now says I have kissed her when her original statement to the employer stated that I only tried. There are also a few other discrepancies all of which have made things sound worse. I have denied all allegations, but due to my past bad character I'm probably likely to get locked up regardless & now lose my job which is what she wants, and didnt get through work. I'm in a situation where I have to prove innocence rather than them prove guilt!! She actually showed me pictures of herself on her mobile phone and also showed me her breasts during one of our encounters which she fully denies, but its me in the doc not her. No one has tried to substantiate my claims about the phone!!?? Its almost as if they dont believe me... So like any Sex offender theyl lock me up and throw away the key.... Any advice on this rather tricky situation???
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