Hi,
I, like presumably all others here, never in my life thought I’d be in the position I find myself in today but here we are
My story is a little more complicated due to the fact that I live in another EU country but my FA comes from my time at University in my home country of Scotland. Essentially here is the run of events:
I live with my long-term girlfriend of three years in a different EU country and in the middle of February this year she received a strange email from Police Scotland asking her to call them about a “non-recent incident” stemming from her time at University. The tagline of the email identified the officer as being from the Divisonal Rape Investigation Unit so she was quite concerned as to what it would all be about.
As soon as she made the call she called me immediately after in a state of panic to say that the police officer had been asking about me and if she had previously been in a relationship with me. As soon as she confirmed that not only had we been (and still are) in a relationship, but we were living together abroad the officer was apparently dumbstruck, claiming that “she was under the impression we were no longer together.” At this point the officer put my girlfriend on hold “to process the information,” the promptly thanked her for her information and terminated the call.
Sending that something was off, I immediately contacted a lawyer in Scotland who got in touch with the DC who at the time said she would be in touch if they needed more information.
Now yesterday I received a message from the lawyer asking me to call him. He told me that the police had been in touch and would indeed like to interview me. He said they had told him that I was a suspect of a rape in 2014 and that if I didn’t arrange an interview time I would be arrested at the airport on my next return to the country. He then asked me if I could think of anything like that which could have happened in that time and honestly I cannot, to which he said they will likely be looking for corroborative evidence in that case from my statement and to prepare myself for a “no comment” interview.
To reiterate - I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT THIS IS ABOUT. I had a string of fully consensual sex in that year before I met my girlfriend in early 2015, but I am still friends or at least acquaintances with every single one of them. Moreover I have had absolutely no strange or suspicious social media correspondence which would in any way implicate me in any kind of sexual assault. Nothing whatsoever.
So I’m hoping anyone here with experience could offer some guidance, particularly to the following:
1) I cannot believe there is any real evidence aside from the allegation which has been made against me. Is it normal for the police to want to arrest me based on that?
2) it has been three months since that first phone call to my girlfriend and now I’m to be interviewed. Is this a normal timeframe
3) What evidence could possibly be used to even attempt to implicate a person in something like this? Even if this is somebody I did have something with why wait three and a half years to say something, and why would they have continued to have a normal, friendly relationship with me in the time between?
I have so many questions flying around my head now and I’m desperately replaying every encounter I had from that time but there’s literally nothing I can think of. I just want my life back and to feel normal again.
I hope to hear from someone soon.
Take care.
I, like presumably all others here, never in my life thought I’d be in the position I find myself in today but here we are
My story is a little more complicated due to the fact that I live in another EU country but my FA comes from my time at University in my home country of Scotland. Essentially here is the run of events:
I live with my long-term girlfriend of three years in a different EU country and in the middle of February this year she received a strange email from Police Scotland asking her to call them about a “non-recent incident” stemming from her time at University. The tagline of the email identified the officer as being from the Divisonal Rape Investigation Unit so she was quite concerned as to what it would all be about.
As soon as she made the call she called me immediately after in a state of panic to say that the police officer had been asking about me and if she had previously been in a relationship with me. As soon as she confirmed that not only had we been (and still are) in a relationship, but we were living together abroad the officer was apparently dumbstruck, claiming that “she was under the impression we were no longer together.” At this point the officer put my girlfriend on hold “to process the information,” the promptly thanked her for her information and terminated the call.
Sending that something was off, I immediately contacted a lawyer in Scotland who got in touch with the DC who at the time said she would be in touch if they needed more information.
Now yesterday I received a message from the lawyer asking me to call him. He told me that the police had been in touch and would indeed like to interview me. He said they had told him that I was a suspect of a rape in 2014 and that if I didn’t arrange an interview time I would be arrested at the airport on my next return to the country. He then asked me if I could think of anything like that which could have happened in that time and honestly I cannot, to which he said they will likely be looking for corroborative evidence in that case from my statement and to prepare myself for a “no comment” interview.
To reiterate - I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT THIS IS ABOUT. I had a string of fully consensual sex in that year before I met my girlfriend in early 2015, but I am still friends or at least acquaintances with every single one of them. Moreover I have had absolutely no strange or suspicious social media correspondence which would in any way implicate me in any kind of sexual assault. Nothing whatsoever.
So I’m hoping anyone here with experience could offer some guidance, particularly to the following:
1) I cannot believe there is any real evidence aside from the allegation which has been made against me. Is it normal for the police to want to arrest me based on that?
2) it has been three months since that first phone call to my girlfriend and now I’m to be interviewed. Is this a normal timeframe
3) What evidence could possibly be used to even attempt to implicate a person in something like this? Even if this is somebody I did have something with why wait three and a half years to say something, and why would they have continued to have a normal, friendly relationship with me in the time between?
I have so many questions flying around my head now and I’m desperately replaying every encounter I had from that time but there’s literally nothing I can think of. I just want my life back and to feel normal again.
I hope to hear from someone soon.
Take care.
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