So I made it here, where to start? I'll try and keep this as brief as possible.
Ok, well on December 6th 2016 I was arrested and detained regarding an alleged Rape and Sexual assault that happened on the 3rd (this surprised the life out of me).
A girl who I had been seeing at the time (and no longer wanted to pursue a relationship with) had reported it to the police on the 5th, following leave of work.
She claims that during the daytime on the 3rd we had consensual sex, only for her to return later in the day and it not be consensual, but that is definitely not the case (obvs far more too this than that but I'm trying to be brief).
So I'm arrested on the Tuesday morning (the 6th) at 4.30am, I first state I want a solicitor and make no further comments.
I get an interview around 9.30/10am and 'no comment' all questions and provide them with a written statement.
I am then released on bail with 1 single condition (no contact).
I am then constantly re-bailed until July/August 2017 when my bail is dropped, but I'm still under investigation.
Then BOOM, on August 15th 2017 I am told the police want to charge me, so rather than wait for a letter I head to the police station with solicitor and get charged.
This is then passed to a Magistrates on the 14/09/17, to be then passed to crown courts on October 12th 2017.
That's where I'm at now, I've entered a not guilty plea and trial is set for mid April of next year.
As of yet the only evidence submitted has been 4 statements =, one VTI from her (with inconsistencies everywhere) and 3 from Family and Friends I have never seen or met (again contradictory) , phone evidence, interviews my neighbours provided etc has still not surfaced (my solicitor points out that the Police/CPS deem it as 'unusable' evidence and have requested we see that ASAP as such.
I'm on a massive roller coster with all of this, I've previously hit rock bottom (drink) because of this, but managed to drag myself back up and get 'better', all be it an expensive way (Detox etc is far from cheap and the one provided through services would not take me on due to the charges against me - So much for innocent until proven otherwise).
It surprised everyone that I know that this has gone 'so far' and yet still has a way to go.
I'll try and leave it at that, there's much more to this.
Ok, well on December 6th 2016 I was arrested and detained regarding an alleged Rape and Sexual assault that happened on the 3rd (this surprised the life out of me).
A girl who I had been seeing at the time (and no longer wanted to pursue a relationship with) had reported it to the police on the 5th, following leave of work.
She claims that during the daytime on the 3rd we had consensual sex, only for her to return later in the day and it not be consensual, but that is definitely not the case (obvs far more too this than that but I'm trying to be brief).
So I'm arrested on the Tuesday morning (the 6th) at 4.30am, I first state I want a solicitor and make no further comments.
I get an interview around 9.30/10am and 'no comment' all questions and provide them with a written statement.
I am then released on bail with 1 single condition (no contact).
I am then constantly re-bailed until July/August 2017 when my bail is dropped, but I'm still under investigation.
Then BOOM, on August 15th 2017 I am told the police want to charge me, so rather than wait for a letter I head to the police station with solicitor and get charged.
This is then passed to a Magistrates on the 14/09/17, to be then passed to crown courts on October 12th 2017.
That's where I'm at now, I've entered a not guilty plea and trial is set for mid April of next year.
As of yet the only evidence submitted has been 4 statements =, one VTI from her (with inconsistencies everywhere) and 3 from Family and Friends I have never seen or met (again contradictory) , phone evidence, interviews my neighbours provided etc has still not surfaced (my solicitor points out that the Police/CPS deem it as 'unusable' evidence and have requested we see that ASAP as such.
I'm on a massive roller coster with all of this, I've previously hit rock bottom (drink) because of this, but managed to drag myself back up and get 'better', all be it an expensive way (Detox etc is far from cheap and the one provided through services would not take me on due to the charges against me - So much for innocent until proven otherwise).
It surprised everyone that I know that this has gone 'so far' and yet still has a way to go.
I'll try and leave it at that, there's much more to this.
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