I'm in the situation of being accused of sexual assault on a woman. By the way I am a woman who is co accused along with my husband! I had a review last week at work and all the stress of my current situation was too much so I confided in my line manager. She told me she was a trained counsellor who had worked in women's refuges, if I ever needed to talk to her she would be there to listen. After my review, which was glowing with no issues towards my work ethics it was left there. This was last Sunday.
I went to work on the following Wednesday only to walk straight into an investigation with my line manager and a female colleague who was there to take notes. I was asked how long I'd been on bail for? What I'm charged with? And could I take my bail sheet into work? This was deeply distressing and humiliating, I drove home in floods of tears, I wasn't even asked if I wanted someone with me to support/advise during the investigation.
Since I had told my line manager she in turn had told my store manager who informed head office of all this.
The following day I recieved a call from my line manager who was told to ask more questions, she asked me " what grounds/evidence did the CPS have to charge you? I told her I wouldn't be answering anymore questions that were not related to work. We left it at that, later the same day she rang me again to let me know I was now suspended on full pay.
Today I have recieved a letter from the large national retailer that an investigation which " in our opinion demonstrates unsuitability for continued employment"
I'm posting this as I've tried to find advice online about this situation but feel it's quite specialised and doesn't crop up every day, any advice from anyone going through the same would be very much appreciated and might help an absolute horrendous situation maybe a little less for now.
I went to work on the following Wednesday only to walk straight into an investigation with my line manager and a female colleague who was there to take notes. I was asked how long I'd been on bail for? What I'm charged with? And could I take my bail sheet into work? This was deeply distressing and humiliating, I drove home in floods of tears, I wasn't even asked if I wanted someone with me to support/advise during the investigation.
Since I had told my line manager she in turn had told my store manager who informed head office of all this.
The following day I recieved a call from my line manager who was told to ask more questions, she asked me " what grounds/evidence did the CPS have to charge you? I told her I wouldn't be answering anymore questions that were not related to work. We left it at that, later the same day she rang me again to let me know I was now suspended on full pay.
Today I have recieved a letter from the large national retailer that an investigation which " in our opinion demonstrates unsuitability for continued employment"
I'm posting this as I've tried to find advice online about this situation but feel it's quite specialised and doesn't crop up every day, any advice from anyone going through the same would be very much appreciated and might help an absolute horrendous situation maybe a little less for now.
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