Look at this logically - why would she prepare to take the children off you when she's not shown any interest in them since you got them back? I know it's difficult not to worry and come up with all sorts of 'what if's' when you've got endless hours to fret, but it's important that you don't let your mind got into overdrive on that sort of thing. Your mental health is important and constant worry doesn't do it any good at all.
If you don't have any hobbies that you can do at home, in the evenings, even something as minor and mindless as doing a big jigsaw could help you redirect your mind. There are lots of other things , that's just the first thing that came into my head. :-)
It's also really unlikely that she'll turn up on the doorstep demanding to stay, and the police won't take the children off you just on her say so. If she involves Social Services, it will take them longer to decide what to do than it's going to get you to get that non-molestation order. Social Services are unlikely to just turn up on your doorstep and remove the children without warning - there are channels to go through and you have a good solicitor.
She can't do any more for you at the moment because wheels are in motion. Cross bridges when you come to them. Like I say, fretting about what your wife might do when there's no indication that she will do anything other than harass you is a road to fragile mental health, and remember that every day that passes with your wife doing nothing or harassing you at most gets you one day closer to the order you need.
She doesn't sound much like a person who prepares for anything to be honest. It's not as if she's gone after getting back the children she's already lost to neglect, is it? These little ones are no different from her others in that respect. I'd also suggest putting your request/instructions to the nursery in writing. You don't have to give a reason or say anything bad about their mother but having such a request documented means that they can't 'forget' your instructions and will be committed to complying.
If you don't have any hobbies that you can do at home, in the evenings, even something as minor and mindless as doing a big jigsaw could help you redirect your mind. There are lots of other things , that's just the first thing that came into my head. :-)
It's also really unlikely that she'll turn up on the doorstep demanding to stay, and the police won't take the children off you just on her say so. If she involves Social Services, it will take them longer to decide what to do than it's going to get you to get that non-molestation order. Social Services are unlikely to just turn up on your doorstep and remove the children without warning - there are channels to go through and you have a good solicitor.
She can't do any more for you at the moment because wheels are in motion. Cross bridges when you come to them. Like I say, fretting about what your wife might do when there's no indication that she will do anything other than harass you is a road to fragile mental health, and remember that every day that passes with your wife doing nothing or harassing you at most gets you one day closer to the order you need.
She doesn't sound much like a person who prepares for anything to be honest. It's not as if she's gone after getting back the children she's already lost to neglect, is it? These little ones are no different from her others in that respect. I'd also suggest putting your request/instructions to the nursery in writing. You don't have to give a reason or say anything bad about their mother but having such a request documented means that they can't 'forget' your instructions and will be committed to complying.
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