Hi All, not posted before, but would like your opinion on what you think this means.
I was falsely accused of raping a girl at a party .....we were at the same party, my partner was there too. The girl was showing out to me all night , we did both have quite a bit to drink. It was the kind of party where most guests slept over . My partner went up to bed very early ( she had too much to drink) after that me and this girl had sex , then I eventually went to bed as well. The next morning this girl was confronted by my partner, about what had happened , it seems the girl looked guilty but then said that I had raped her, she then went home, but later that night she went to the police who came and arrested me.( took my phone and computer ) upon release I was bailed for 3 months.
When I turned up in 3 months , I just got re-bailed for another 3 months. When I turned up at the due date, they just said they had been very busy, and let me go and said they would get in touch when they had done their enquires,
Its been some time about 2 months since then...still no word from them and I haven't heard if they have contacted anyone else who was at the party. So I am not on bail, can even move house without asking them, no restrictions on travel......
What do you guys think this means? is it usual ? I have heard that this can go on for about two years !!! ( not sure I can take this stress for 2 years)
My partner has left me and taken away our two kids and won't let me see them , and I have lost my job , ( done some casual work) and the longer I'm out of the career loop the harder it will be for me to get another job.
I don't want to hassle them, as I kind of feel that the longer it goes on the better it will be for me, as memories of people at the party will weaken
I will be very grateful if you could give me any clues as to what ,if anything, this means
Thank you for any help you can give
I was falsely accused of raping a girl at a party .....we were at the same party, my partner was there too. The girl was showing out to me all night , we did both have quite a bit to drink. It was the kind of party where most guests slept over . My partner went up to bed very early ( she had too much to drink) after that me and this girl had sex , then I eventually went to bed as well. The next morning this girl was confronted by my partner, about what had happened , it seems the girl looked guilty but then said that I had raped her, she then went home, but later that night she went to the police who came and arrested me.( took my phone and computer ) upon release I was bailed for 3 months.
When I turned up in 3 months , I just got re-bailed for another 3 months. When I turned up at the due date, they just said they had been very busy, and let me go and said they would get in touch when they had done their enquires,
Its been some time about 2 months since then...still no word from them and I haven't heard if they have contacted anyone else who was at the party. So I am not on bail, can even move house without asking them, no restrictions on travel......
What do you guys think this means? is it usual ? I have heard that this can go on for about two years !!! ( not sure I can take this stress for 2 years)
My partner has left me and taken away our two kids and won't let me see them , and I have lost my job , ( done some casual work) and the longer I'm out of the career loop the harder it will be for me to get another job.
I don't want to hassle them, as I kind of feel that the longer it goes on the better it will be for me, as memories of people at the party will weaken
I will be very grateful if you could give me any clues as to what ,if anything, this means
Thank you for any help you can give
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