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Hey all after reading the posts on this amazing site for the last few months I have mustered up the courage to post my story. I'm not the best at writing So I do apologise for spelling mistakes ect. So yeah here goes...
Back in 2013 I separated from the mother of my child. Everything was running smoothly. I was getting regular contact with my child and things seemed pretty amicable between me and my ex. She regular used to ask how I was doing ect and on a few occasions even asked if I could give her a lift to her friends house. Then one evening she had an argument with my mother resulting in her deciding she was going to stop contact as her head was a mess. Within days of this I was awoken to the police knocking at my door informing me I was being arrested for alleged domestic violence. Needles to say I was shocked and lost for words. I was taken to my local police station held for around 6 hours before being interviewed before being held for a further 6 hours. After 12 hours of worry I was informed by the custody sergeant that I was free to go and the police and cps would not be taking any further action.
What followed next was months of battling in court to see my child and finally I was granted pretty much 50/50 care. For the next two years everything seemed to be amicable once again. We both used to speak and communicate regarding issues with our child. I was even invited in for tea ect. Which confused me due to what I had been accused of by her. Moving on to 2016 this is when things got extremely bad. Yet again the police arrive at my door, only this time they are here to arrest me for historical sexual assault. Again I am shocked and at a loss for words. Yet again I am taken to the police station and locked in a cell. After around 10 hours of being locked in a cell I finally get interviewed by cid it is at this point I find the extent of the allegations. 10 to 20 times historical rape no dates no times no locations literally nothing. After around a 2 hour interview I was taken back to my cell for a further 2 hours before being given pre charge bail. I can't really describe how I felt or how I feel right now. But after months of returning back and forth to answer bail as of January 2017 I finally recieved an nfa.
Back in 2013 I separated from the mother of my child. Everything was running smoothly. I was getting regular contact with my child and things seemed pretty amicable between me and my ex. She regular used to ask how I was doing ect and on a few occasions even asked if I could give her a lift to her friends house. Then one evening she had an argument with my mother resulting in her deciding she was going to stop contact as her head was a mess. Within days of this I was awoken to the police knocking at my door informing me I was being arrested for alleged domestic violence. Needles to say I was shocked and lost for words. I was taken to my local police station held for around 6 hours before being interviewed before being held for a further 6 hours. After 12 hours of worry I was informed by the custody sergeant that I was free to go and the police and cps would not be taking any further action.
What followed next was months of battling in court to see my child and finally I was granted pretty much 50/50 care. For the next two years everything seemed to be amicable once again. We both used to speak and communicate regarding issues with our child. I was even invited in for tea ect. Which confused me due to what I had been accused of by her. Moving on to 2016 this is when things got extremely bad. Yet again the police arrive at my door, only this time they are here to arrest me for historical sexual assault. Again I am shocked and at a loss for words. Yet again I am taken to the police station and locked in a cell. After around 10 hours of being locked in a cell I finally get interviewed by cid it is at this point I find the extent of the allegations. 10 to 20 times historical rape no dates no times no locations literally nothing. After around a 2 hour interview I was taken back to my cell for a further 2 hours before being given pre charge bail. I can't really describe how I felt or how I feel right now. But after months of returning back and forth to answer bail as of January 2017 I finally recieved an nfa.
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