Going through hell, advice would be appreciated.

[mol12]

last person to trust is a "police offier"

quote Which is why I say to ANYONE falsely accussed OF ANY CRIME, the last person to trust is a "police offier" as I have personally experienced

NO HONESTY
NO INTEGRITY
NO IMPARTIALITY
&
NO TRANSPARENCY OF CONDUCT.

Too right ,in my case i was given dates of events, being a lorry driver , and knowing i could prove where i would have been on the dates I gave them my tacos, a disc that prove the speed time and milage,pluss start town and finnish town, yes dates changed and taco's vanished
The most sorry thing is I have a brother in law who is a bent copper retired , still bent and one day I hope to prove it, never trust a copper,its not the job , its the money

[Saffron]

Has anyone heard from Damien M recently? He seems to have vanished, and I am a little concerned for him!

[Rights Fighter]

Sorry no I haven't.

[Chrisb]

hope

I hope he is alright. But can I ask, do a lot of those falsely accussed stop posting on here when they have been aquitted or the CPS have dropped it?

[Saffron]

Hi Chris
yes, quite a few people stop posting after an NFA or acquittal. Sometimes they just need to put the ordeal behind them, and coming here and reading posts from frightened, desperate people can sometimes be too much. when you are trying to "carry on as normal" it can sometimes be difficult to come here and read of other people's experiences. the injustice really rankles - more and more people every day are suffering the same kind of trauma. that can be terribly hard to bear, so they just stop coming.
In a way, offering advice here means that you sort of relive what happened to you. Lots of people find this too overwhelming.
I am not sure why I still come here. Sometimes it makes me feel worse, and I get The Fear all over again. Other times it makes me want to smash things, I get so angry. and sometimes it makes me unbearably sad. But the majority of the time i find it a comfort that i can offer support and advice to other people who are in a similar situation.

so, having wibbled off topic again - yes, quite a few people find it too difficult to read of others experiences when they are trying to put it behind them, and resume their lives.

[DamienM]

Hi people,

Just to let people know that I'm OK. Just trying to get on my with my life, I'm determined not to the lies of one silly girl ruin my life, so I've been getting on with uni and stuff. Still not heard anything back about my case, hoping it all gets cleared up soon so I can get on with my life, then maybe I'll be able to get a decent nights sleep without the nightmares!! Here's hoping.

Just wanna say thank you to people for being supportive, it really is appreciated.

Damien

[Chrisb]

Stick together

We all must stick together, make each other laugh and share our experiences so that people know they are not alone.

[Unregistered]

Damien

Damien
I need help too tho im not the accused, my son is
If you are still around, please contact ,e on this post.
regards
Frightened mum

[DamienM]

Hi people.

Just been to the police station this morning and have been informed that no further action is being taken due to a lack of evidence supporting the girl's story. So thats a massive weight off my mind, and now I can get my life back on track.

Just wanted to say a massive thank you to everyone who has given me advice and support over the past 5months, it is very greatly appreciated, and will not be forgotten.

[Saffron]

WAHEY!!
that's great news Damien, I am so pleased for you. Well done for staying strong and getting through this.

Saffron x

[Rights Fighter]

Great news Damien!

Frightened mum, who posted earlier, you will need to register so that people can contact you via private message.

[RFLH]

That's brilliant news Damien.

Nice to see sense prevail for once!!!!!!

[matt1701]

Damien I have sent you a private message. I can talk you through what might happen and what to expect.

Hello,

I'm new here and have been reading through old posts.
I have found your posts to be very well structured and supportive for the readers.
I would be very much obliged if you could have a read of my story/plea for help, posted yesterday (05/11/15)
I don't know if I should be seeking a specialist solicitor and I have a great many other questions too which I would be very pleased to be able to discuss with people in the know.
If you would be kind enough to take a look at it I would be indebted to you. I'm really scared and confused now
Many Thanks.
M.