Can't believe what's she claimed

[Feelin sick]

Hi guys, I split with my ex back in June 16, the last night we was together the sex was pretty normal sex before bed and then I woke in the night and I woke her we had sex again a quickie this had happened before in the morning she said she did not like it as she dint orgasam, (it was normal she had to orgasam usually twice in a session, so I said we wouldn't do it like that again, we had breakfast I left for for work 10 mins later she txt to say feeling sad as missing me already followed by more lovey messages, I sent 1 saying sorry about sleepy sex she replied she dint like it felt used! Then loads more loving messages, anyway we was at a crossroads and finished the weekend after.
I stared to see one else a couple months later and we moved in together November in march I get a phone call from the police asking me to volunteer for an interview the ex as now claimed that the night sex was rape not the first bit the second she reported it in November but the office was then off sick till march, I haven't been arrested just sat in limbo.

[Peter1975]

Hi,

I'm sorry to hear this story. It's a very familiar tale sadly, hell hath no fury and all that.. and the ever widening definition of rape doesn't help either.

Nevertheless, try not to panic. You are not alone.

I don't suppose you still have those messages?

When is your interview? If you have time to seek out a solicitor that is experienced in false allegations that can attend the interview with you I suggest you do so, although most duty solicitors have plenty of experience in this sort of thing these days. It really is far too common.

The link to recommended solicitors is at the top of this page :

http://www.daftmoo.org.uk/mooforum/f...ul-Information

You may also find this link helpful :

http://www.daftmoo.org.uk/mooforum/s...at-happens-now

Most cases (around 80%) are subject to no further action (NFA)

[Feelin sick]

Thanks peter,

I had the interview last week with a solicitor that was the first I heard of this, the next day I manage to get back the what's app messages so I do have them I emailed them to my solicitor who's says well leave it till we see what happens.
How can she send me love messages 3 hrs after it was supposed to be rape?

Sleep is hard and my current g/f is sticking by me by I feel strange around her not sure what to do etc

The police say it could be 3 to 6 months before I hear what's happening?

I'm usually a fun guy but at moment feel low and empty find myself just wondering off, I'm worried my current g/f will get fed up if I stay like this

[Rights Fighter]

Hopefully you still have those text messages where she says after the alleged assault that she was missing you etc. Save them into a file onto your tablet/computer so you have copies, in case the police want to keep your phone.

[Goodguy]

Welcome

Hi i am very sorry to hear about your ordeal and the worst part at the minute will be the waiting my partner was called to attend a interview last june 9 months later hes rececntly been charged. We had only just got together althiugh previously knew each other and have avoided speaking about it for the 9 months but due to the developments we havnt had a choice and my partner had the same worries about me walkig away deciding it wasnt worth it etc. But be assured your partner has told you shes sticking by you and her feelings for you havnt changed. This person whos accusing you is probably hoping that the accussation does split you up as she wants to ruin your life. Dont allow that dont shut your partner put and when you dont want to talk or are feeling werid amd need time out tell her she will understand if you trll her at times you need space or that you dont feel like talkig to her about things but dont shut her out as she will be worrying now about you and how she can help you. Keep talkig to those around you and on here and if your partner is struggling at any time suggest the site to her i have found it a huge support over the last couple of weeks and would be lost without it