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Hi,
I've just come across this website as I've been looking over people's post and finding similarities to something i am currently going through.
So from the beginning...
Few nights ago, me and three friends decided to have a night out. So we headed out and and eventually ended up in one club for the night. While one the dance floor, I smiled at a girl which she responded by dancing with us. After a while me and two of my friends decided to go outside and have a smoke, leaving one friend with the girl. We ended up going to a different part of the club after the smoke and had a few drinks and danced in this other part of the club. We kept checking to see if our friend was still with this girl, which he was so left him there. Few hours passed and the club was shutting, so we all left and the girl was leaving with us.
This girl invited us all back for a party at hers, non of us were really keen on the idea so said we couldn't we had plans early the next day. She started to cry and say she didn't want to go into the taxi by herself, we offered to go in the taxi and drop her off first. At this point me and a friend just left my two friends talking to her and eventually my friends agreed to go back to hers for a drink. We all arrive at hers and said she was getting a bottle of vodka from here friends place. we went with her and at this stage there was a group of people opposite her friends flat so i started to chat with them for a while, while my friends went to the girls place. After a while of chatting with these people, we all decided to go for a smoke, where one suggested watching a movie, we all agree so a few went up while a few was still smoking. After finishing the smoke, we went upstairs and on the way my friends follow. Then these people decided to go to sleep instead. So me and my friends decided we go back down to the girls place. Two of my friends also decided they would go home, so it was just me and my one friend left. We were chilling and this girl was offering us alot of vodka (once the drink was finished, instantly topping it up again). After a while my friend decides to go to bed because hes had enough, so the girl said to have get in her bed.
That leaves myself and this girl, we chat for a while talking about games and all sorts. We then start talking about my child. After talking about my child for a while, she gives me a hug and leave hers hand on my left. This lead to a bit of flirting and after a while one thing lead to another. We start having sex and after a while she says that she cant wait for my "jizz inside her" after this, it freaked me out so i stop, saying that im to tired to continue. She then start to give me oral and eventually gets on top of me, after a few mins i tell her again im to tired to continue and can we go bed. We then put cloths on and i have a smoke while she pours me another drink. We then go to her bed, where my friend is, and get in. i drift off and wake up like 20 mins later and notice i was the only one in the room. i decide to have another smoke and ask her for her key to get back into the flat, she gets the key and gives it me. when i finished i then returned to the room and she asked what i laughed about earlier... i was abit confused and she said after we got into bed i giggled about something, which im assuming i did while i was sleeping. eventually we all get back into bed and go to sleep. The next day we wake up and she offers us a bacon sandwich, but at this stage i was feeling rough and still drunk so decline and get ready to leave. Just before we leave she asks if she can add me of facebook, i agree.
I then get home and sleep for the rest the day.
Then the nightmare begins, the early hours of the next day the police are at the door. They come in and explain that she has accused me of raping her. Complete shock hit me. But i composed myself and left with them. In the police station i am put into a cell for a few hours, in the cell i threw up a few times from the shock! then i go out for them to get dna and that and then put back into a cell. After a few more hours my solicitor was there and i was able to speak with him about the nightmare. The first thing he said to me was "this is alot of bollox" and asked me to explain my side of the story. I explain my side of the story in the interview and afterwards was told from there i will be on pre-charge police bail.
Currently on pre-charge bail and trying to keep a positive mind is quiet hard. The friends i was out with and my other house mates are keeping me hopeful, but only so much they can do! Just the waiting game is scarey.
After reading some of the posts on here i thought i'd post my story as well, atleast this way i can have people who have been in similar situations as myself will be able to give me there advice on how to handle it.
Sorry for the wall of text.
I've just come across this website as I've been looking over people's post and finding similarities to something i am currently going through.
So from the beginning...
Few nights ago, me and three friends decided to have a night out. So we headed out and and eventually ended up in one club for the night. While one the dance floor, I smiled at a girl which she responded by dancing with us. After a while me and two of my friends decided to go outside and have a smoke, leaving one friend with the girl. We ended up going to a different part of the club after the smoke and had a few drinks and danced in this other part of the club. We kept checking to see if our friend was still with this girl, which he was so left him there. Few hours passed and the club was shutting, so we all left and the girl was leaving with us.
This girl invited us all back for a party at hers, non of us were really keen on the idea so said we couldn't we had plans early the next day. She started to cry and say she didn't want to go into the taxi by herself, we offered to go in the taxi and drop her off first. At this point me and a friend just left my two friends talking to her and eventually my friends agreed to go back to hers for a drink. We all arrive at hers and said she was getting a bottle of vodka from here friends place. we went with her and at this stage there was a group of people opposite her friends flat so i started to chat with them for a while, while my friends went to the girls place. After a while of chatting with these people, we all decided to go for a smoke, where one suggested watching a movie, we all agree so a few went up while a few was still smoking. After finishing the smoke, we went upstairs and on the way my friends follow. Then these people decided to go to sleep instead. So me and my friends decided we go back down to the girls place. Two of my friends also decided they would go home, so it was just me and my one friend left. We were chilling and this girl was offering us alot of vodka (once the drink was finished, instantly topping it up again). After a while my friend decides to go to bed because hes had enough, so the girl said to have get in her bed.
That leaves myself and this girl, we chat for a while talking about games and all sorts. We then start talking about my child. After talking about my child for a while, she gives me a hug and leave hers hand on my left. This lead to a bit of flirting and after a while one thing lead to another. We start having sex and after a while she says that she cant wait for my "jizz inside her" after this, it freaked me out so i stop, saying that im to tired to continue. She then start to give me oral and eventually gets on top of me, after a few mins i tell her again im to tired to continue and can we go bed. We then put cloths on and i have a smoke while she pours me another drink. We then go to her bed, where my friend is, and get in. i drift off and wake up like 20 mins later and notice i was the only one in the room. i decide to have another smoke and ask her for her key to get back into the flat, she gets the key and gives it me. when i finished i then returned to the room and she asked what i laughed about earlier... i was abit confused and she said after we got into bed i giggled about something, which im assuming i did while i was sleeping. eventually we all get back into bed and go to sleep. The next day we wake up and she offers us a bacon sandwich, but at this stage i was feeling rough and still drunk so decline and get ready to leave. Just before we leave she asks if she can add me of facebook, i agree.
I then get home and sleep for the rest the day.
Then the nightmare begins, the early hours of the next day the police are at the door. They come in and explain that she has accused me of raping her. Complete shock hit me. But i composed myself and left with them. In the police station i am put into a cell for a few hours, in the cell i threw up a few times from the shock! then i go out for them to get dna and that and then put back into a cell. After a few more hours my solicitor was there and i was able to speak with him about the nightmare. The first thing he said to me was "this is alot of bollox" and asked me to explain my side of the story. I explain my side of the story in the interview and afterwards was told from there i will be on pre-charge police bail.
Currently on pre-charge bail and trying to keep a positive mind is quiet hard. The friends i was out with and my other house mates are keeping me hopeful, but only so much they can do! Just the waiting game is scarey.
After reading some of the posts on here i thought i'd post my story as well, atleast this way i can have people who have been in similar situations as myself will be able to give me there advice on how to handle it.
Sorry for the wall of text.
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