I need help and lots of it!!
If anyone can advise of websites to visit and general information relating to cases of rape and statutory rape.
The situation is as follows:
I am so stressed and don't even know the chances of him be convicted and if so, how long he will serve in jail.
She two months off her 16th birthday and he was just turned 25 at the time....he can't use the 'young mans defence' in the case of statutory rape.
I feel so helpless and so do his family...he will try and take the pain away sometimes by drinking too much and I feel he is ruining himself. I feel for him not just as his girlfriend but as a fellow human being...I think its unfair that people can falsely accuse men of rape just because they know it will hurt them.
Desperately seeking advice
Thank you for taking the time to read this. kt x
If anyone can advise of websites to visit and general information relating to cases of rape and statutory rape.
The situation is as follows:
- Over two years ago my boyfriend had sex three times with a girl who claimed to be 17 (was really 15 at time).
- The best friend of the girl above beat up his ex-ggirfreind before me
- She brought charges against this girl
- The aforementioned girl of 15 said if they brought charges against her best friend then she would do anything she could to hurt her and my boyfrined.
- In March this year he was dragged off by police and charged with rape
- He thought he was being honest by admitting they had sex but that it wasn't rape
- he was not aware she was 15
- By admitting that they had sex he has admitted to statutory rape
- She embellished a little saying that although she continued to have sex with him that she told him she was 15, that she was a virgin (definitely not true) and he raped her anally.
- He got the best lawyer he could in his area, but he didn't tell him anything about the case saying it wasn't serious.
- My boyfriend has three witness statements that confirm that this is a vendetta attempt and the girl in question has said to many people she didn't know it would go this far.
- He ahs since tried to change his lawyer as the new lawyer said if he had got his witness statements to the procurator fiscal this wouldn't have gone to a hearing and eventual trial.
- We are now awaiting a trial date and if the new lawyer will be able to take on the case through legal aid ( as he is further away from the area)
I am so stressed and don't even know the chances of him be convicted and if so, how long he will serve in jail.
She two months off her 16th birthday and he was just turned 25 at the time....he can't use the 'young mans defence' in the case of statutory rape.
I feel so helpless and so do his family...he will try and take the pain away sometimes by drinking too much and I feel he is ruining himself. I feel for him not just as his girlfriend but as a fellow human being...I think its unfair that people can falsely accuse men of rape just because they know it will hurt them.
Desperately seeking advice
Thank you for taking the time to read this. kt x
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