I had absolutely no idea that our system allowed things to operate in this way. They do. And much of what I've learned over the last 16 months, I wish I'd never had to learn. Of course none of it may yet be necessary, but I guess forearmed is forewarned.
Some of the things you've put in your last post painfully remind me of how I was at the start of this.
Arming yourself with all the information you can is most definitely the best course of action at this point.
It's good that you are taking legal advice - My only caution is that if the solicitor does not handle these types of cases as a matter of course, you must be very careful because they will also think (as you and I do/did) that the law applies to these cases in the same way as others. It doesn't.....If tou are accused of burglary and you can prove that you could not have been anywhere near the scene at that time, your solicitor will (rightly) present that evidence NOW. Case closed.
With SO, the police will simply give the accuser the opportunity to "correct themselves". Case continues unaffected. A "normal" solicitor might not know that this is the case.
Tread very carefully .... My guess (please correct me if I'm wrong) is that Chris Saltrese told you that there's not much that can be done at this point. I guess the Solicitor that you've made an appointment with has given you cause to think otherwise (because it's what you want to hear)?
Please beware. If you have to use someone at this stage, please use a "specialist"....you will know who they are because none of them will take any money off you at this point.
Best Wishes,
TBG1
Some of the things you've put in your last post painfully remind me of how I was at the start of this.
Arming yourself with all the information you can is most definitely the best course of action at this point.
It's good that you are taking legal advice - My only caution is that if the solicitor does not handle these types of cases as a matter of course, you must be very careful because they will also think (as you and I do/did) that the law applies to these cases in the same way as others. It doesn't.....If tou are accused of burglary and you can prove that you could not have been anywhere near the scene at that time, your solicitor will (rightly) present that evidence NOW. Case closed.
With SO, the police will simply give the accuser the opportunity to "correct themselves". Case continues unaffected. A "normal" solicitor might not know that this is the case.
Tread very carefully .... My guess (please correct me if I'm wrong) is that Chris Saltrese told you that there's not much that can be done at this point. I guess the Solicitor that you've made an appointment with has given you cause to think otherwise (because it's what you want to hear)?
Please beware. If you have to use someone at this stage, please use a "specialist"....you will know who they are because none of them will take any money off you at this point.
Best Wishes,
TBG1
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