totally out of the blue the police called around to my house yesterday and asked to to make a voluntary interview about an incident which apparently took place over 25yrs ago.
the allegation was that i used to visit a house where i used to live and on a number of occasions raped someone visiting.
this was a total shock and the interview was a little hazy - i did have a solicitor.
well since the interview the feeling of sheer shock has turned to anger, this could ruin myself and family - everything i have built up and worked for gone .. in the hands of possibly 12 men/women on a jury.
So my thinking hat came on.
The dates the person said it happened are clearly not right - this person was not living there ... they are 2years out.
I was never in the house with them, as can be evidenced by the owners of the house (it is a long story but this person was put there by social services and due to background could not be left alone)
I have done research on the accuser and their own children have been taken off them and they are in a long battle with the local authority (the same one as they were in) - I strongly feel I am being used as a pawn in a game as this person clearly wants to topple the local social services.
the link with me i think has been established, i did visit to see the owners (i was only 18 at the time, they were family friends) and this year my facebook pic changed to that as I was 18 - we have mutual friends, unknown to me but only after doing research and i suspect she has clicked on the mutual friends, saw my pic from 18 and thought "i know that person" !!
this person has made various posts about this incident online, although not naming me, she states online she told social workers and they didn't believe her but to the police this has not been mentioned - i know for a fact no social worker was ever told as it didn't happen - so inconsistencies here.
online there are literally hundreds of posts from the month this year it was reported .. so i suspect something happened in her life to start this rant and accusation !
Should I go back and make another statement to the police, or wait to see if they come back to me ?
I know its not for me to help the police but I genuinely didn't do it - the last few days have been a nightmare and I am not sure I can take months of uncertainty - is it best to give all this info now so they can deal with it or wait and then let solicitor use it in a trial, but clearly i would like to close this before a trial and court !!
If she is so far out with the dates, 2 years, is this changeable - can she say "oh yeah, it was actually 2 years later and therefore I was 17 and not 15 as i said before ??'
I can now understand why people pay £thousands to make false allegations go away - this is scary, how can i disprove this - i know its not for me to disprove but then 1 persons word against another !!!
the allegation was that i used to visit a house where i used to live and on a number of occasions raped someone visiting.
this was a total shock and the interview was a little hazy - i did have a solicitor.
well since the interview the feeling of sheer shock has turned to anger, this could ruin myself and family - everything i have built up and worked for gone .. in the hands of possibly 12 men/women on a jury.
So my thinking hat came on.
The dates the person said it happened are clearly not right - this person was not living there ... they are 2years out.
I was never in the house with them, as can be evidenced by the owners of the house (it is a long story but this person was put there by social services and due to background could not be left alone)
I have done research on the accuser and their own children have been taken off them and they are in a long battle with the local authority (the same one as they were in) - I strongly feel I am being used as a pawn in a game as this person clearly wants to topple the local social services.
the link with me i think has been established, i did visit to see the owners (i was only 18 at the time, they were family friends) and this year my facebook pic changed to that as I was 18 - we have mutual friends, unknown to me but only after doing research and i suspect she has clicked on the mutual friends, saw my pic from 18 and thought "i know that person" !!
this person has made various posts about this incident online, although not naming me, she states online she told social workers and they didn't believe her but to the police this has not been mentioned - i know for a fact no social worker was ever told as it didn't happen - so inconsistencies here.
online there are literally hundreds of posts from the month this year it was reported .. so i suspect something happened in her life to start this rant and accusation !
Should I go back and make another statement to the police, or wait to see if they come back to me ?
I know its not for me to help the police but I genuinely didn't do it - the last few days have been a nightmare and I am not sure I can take months of uncertainty - is it best to give all this info now so they can deal with it or wait and then let solicitor use it in a trial, but clearly i would like to close this before a trial and court !!
If she is so far out with the dates, 2 years, is this changeable - can she say "oh yeah, it was actually 2 years later and therefore I was 17 and not 15 as i said before ??'
I can now understand why people pay £thousands to make false allegations go away - this is scary, how can i disprove this - i know its not for me to disprove but then 1 persons word against another !!!
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