Hi, after following this forum for a while, I think it would help me to post about my own situation.
On my 18th birthday, I had a one night stand with a girl who I considered a friend at the time. She was very nice in the morning and was speaking with me and the other witnesses
about how funny the night before was. Two days later, four police members turned up outside my house and detained me for around 8 hours before I was interviewed.
At the time, I was so confused and I nearly didn't use a sol as I assumed this is best when you have nothing to hide. Even so, I opted for legal aid which has been super supportive
so far. Fast forward 8 months; and I have had to balance learning to drive, with my a level exams, alongside preparing to permanently move countries to study abroad whilst my parents retire.
My sol told me I have a very strong case and on top of this, told me that the OIC did not believe this case would go anywhere. Well, a couple weeks ago I was informed I had been charged with one count of rape. My friends have been very supportive and I managed to suppress the stress until after my exams which are now finished. Being given unconditional bail, I have now moved abroad but I will be flying back at the end of the month for the early magistrates appearance.
My brother has offered to pay for private aid and I am looking at getting Chris Saltrese as my barrister, as, by the sounds of it, he has a powerful track record. Even so, this s*** is incredibly stressful and I feel terrible to be placing such a strain on my family and friends, as this move should have been such an amazing thing but now I am experiencing the best and worst emotions all at the same time. I don't know, it's not something you can prepare for until it happens to you. And what terrible timing as well
Anyway, there is so much great advice on this forum, I guess I'm just offloading my situation at the moment and how strange it feels. I have faith in my defense however, and have managed to stay resilient so far.
The only potential issue I am looking at right now is that of the local media, I really do not want to be outed for something I haven't done, as I have a relatively large group of friends and acquaintances and I can only imagine that a few will hold the view that there is no smoke without fire. Even so, any advice regarding handling the media, or anything else you feel is relevant would be appreciated very much.
On my 18th birthday, I had a one night stand with a girl who I considered a friend at the time. She was very nice in the morning and was speaking with me and the other witnesses
about how funny the night before was. Two days later, four police members turned up outside my house and detained me for around 8 hours before I was interviewed.
At the time, I was so confused and I nearly didn't use a sol as I assumed this is best when you have nothing to hide. Even so, I opted for legal aid which has been super supportive
so far. Fast forward 8 months; and I have had to balance learning to drive, with my a level exams, alongside preparing to permanently move countries to study abroad whilst my parents retire.
My sol told me I have a very strong case and on top of this, told me that the OIC did not believe this case would go anywhere. Well, a couple weeks ago I was informed I had been charged with one count of rape. My friends have been very supportive and I managed to suppress the stress until after my exams which are now finished. Being given unconditional bail, I have now moved abroad but I will be flying back at the end of the month for the early magistrates appearance.
My brother has offered to pay for private aid and I am looking at getting Chris Saltrese as my barrister, as, by the sounds of it, he has a powerful track record. Even so, this s*** is incredibly stressful and I feel terrible to be placing such a strain on my family and friends, as this move should have been such an amazing thing but now I am experiencing the best and worst emotions all at the same time. I don't know, it's not something you can prepare for until it happens to you. And what terrible timing as well
Anyway, there is so much great advice on this forum, I guess I'm just offloading my situation at the moment and how strange it feels. I have faith in my defense however, and have managed to stay resilient so far.
The only potential issue I am looking at right now is that of the local media, I really do not want to be outed for something I haven't done, as I have a relatively large group of friends and acquaintances and I can only imagine that a few will hold the view that there is no smoke without fire. Even so, any advice regarding handling the media, or anything else you feel is relevant would be appreciated very much.
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