Hi,
New on here and in need of some help and advice.
My partner was falsely accused of rape by a girl at his former company. He left the company a few months ago but still decided to attend the annual work Xmas party which was held at a hotel.
Really not sure how to write this as I'm sure there will be bits missed out but here goes.
He went to the party and planned to stay overnight in his friends room. He had an overnight bag with him which he was going to put in the cloakroom but this girl insisted he take her room key and put keep it in there which he did. I should mention that I met this girl at my partners leaving do and for some reason I didn't like her even then which is not like me as I usually don't judge people right away.
Anyway he went on to enjoy the party with his work colleagues and the drinking was taken back to another girls room where there was quite a few of them. He then got tired and went to back to that girls room as he still had the key to get his stuff and use the loo.
He first sat on the bed and finished his drink where at that point she came on to him and kissed him and tried to take his clothes off. He pushed her off and left the room. He then went to his friends room to sleep. In the morning he called the girl to ask for his washbag which was left in her room and she hung up on him twice while telling him to F off.
The party was on a Thursday and he was arrested on a Saturday night and taken to the station to be interviewed. They didn't interview him until the Sunday as I was told by the police officer when I called up that he was sleeping so they didn't want to disturb him.
He was truthful in what he said even remembered the little things like her room number which she couldn't even recall. Only thing is he didn't ask for a solicitor as he didn't think he needed one at the time. His first bail date was at the end of Feb which they postponed to this Friday.
We are going besides ourselves with worry especially as we are due to get married in a few months time and putting things on hold until this nightmare ends. Trying to remain positive but find myself thinking the worst.
As soon as she made this false accusation she was seen on snapchat the next day singing and laughing and since then she is all over social media enjoying her life, wearing provocative clothes and going on holidays like nothing happened. Whereas we have out our lives on hold. I have been told by my friends who work with her that she is acting like nothing has happened. Really trying to keep strong for my partner but keep thinking that I won't be able to go on if the worst should happen.
FYI he has a solicitor now which is a family friend. Any advice will be much appreciated. Not sure what to expect at the bail date?
New on here and in need of some help and advice.
My partner was falsely accused of rape by a girl at his former company. He left the company a few months ago but still decided to attend the annual work Xmas party which was held at a hotel.
Really not sure how to write this as I'm sure there will be bits missed out but here goes.
He went to the party and planned to stay overnight in his friends room. He had an overnight bag with him which he was going to put in the cloakroom but this girl insisted he take her room key and put keep it in there which he did. I should mention that I met this girl at my partners leaving do and for some reason I didn't like her even then which is not like me as I usually don't judge people right away.
Anyway he went on to enjoy the party with his work colleagues and the drinking was taken back to another girls room where there was quite a few of them. He then got tired and went to back to that girls room as he still had the key to get his stuff and use the loo.
He first sat on the bed and finished his drink where at that point she came on to him and kissed him and tried to take his clothes off. He pushed her off and left the room. He then went to his friends room to sleep. In the morning he called the girl to ask for his washbag which was left in her room and she hung up on him twice while telling him to F off.
The party was on a Thursday and he was arrested on a Saturday night and taken to the station to be interviewed. They didn't interview him until the Sunday as I was told by the police officer when I called up that he was sleeping so they didn't want to disturb him.
He was truthful in what he said even remembered the little things like her room number which she couldn't even recall. Only thing is he didn't ask for a solicitor as he didn't think he needed one at the time. His first bail date was at the end of Feb which they postponed to this Friday.
We are going besides ourselves with worry especially as we are due to get married in a few months time and putting things on hold until this nightmare ends. Trying to remain positive but find myself thinking the worst.
As soon as she made this false accusation she was seen on snapchat the next day singing and laughing and since then she is all over social media enjoying her life, wearing provocative clothes and going on holidays like nothing happened. Whereas we have out our lives on hold. I have been told by my friends who work with her that she is acting like nothing has happened. Really trying to keep strong for my partner but keep thinking that I won't be able to go on if the worst should happen.
FYI he has a solicitor now which is a family friend. Any advice will be much appreciated. Not sure what to expect at the bail date?
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