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Firstly I don't know where to start, for the last 3 months (ever since I was accused) I've been losing my mind, having suicidal thoughts, anxiety attacks and illness....
I'll start from the begging, I was accused of attenoted rape by my ex gf, after we broke up over a year ago we have remained in contact as friends, meeting for coffee and catch ups with no issues. Both mine and her family's are friends and genuinely a close relationship. We're both 25
One evening in February I had an argument with my current gf and we met up as we usually do for a chat. She asked to meet me first which instigated the thought process of going to see her, we sat in my car and spoke for 2 hours with no issues, she kept referring to our relationship and negative points in her life, she recently lost her job and her bf is never around and she lives alone. Which is stark contrast trust to myself where I've just been promoted again at work and are due for a mortgage acceptance on a house with my current girlfriend. She then went to her flat and we continued to message. She then invited me to her house , so told me the number and opened the external flat doors upon my buzz request then opened her internal door. When she answered she had stripped from the waist down and only had a vest on, I walked into her front room and she then sat on my lap facing me , we then kissed and she slid my hands up her leg, we engaged in foreplay for only 2minutes to which I realised I shouldn't be doing this, I stopped apologised and left her house drove home and that was the end.
Fast forward to 2am and I was arrested at my house where she alleged I had tried to rape her, I was kept in a cell for 14 hours. Had an interview and then released on bail. I'm due back on the 16th but I'm just so worried they will believe her lies, I know being upset is a stupid excuse for seeing her but I stopped anything going further and now she is trying to ruin my life, I just can't cope
I'll start from the begging, I was accused of attenoted rape by my ex gf, after we broke up over a year ago we have remained in contact as friends, meeting for coffee and catch ups with no issues. Both mine and her family's are friends and genuinely a close relationship. We're both 25
One evening in February I had an argument with my current gf and we met up as we usually do for a chat. She asked to meet me first which instigated the thought process of going to see her, we sat in my car and spoke for 2 hours with no issues, she kept referring to our relationship and negative points in her life, she recently lost her job and her bf is never around and she lives alone. Which is stark contrast trust to myself where I've just been promoted again at work and are due for a mortgage acceptance on a house with my current girlfriend. She then went to her flat and we continued to message. She then invited me to her house , so told me the number and opened the external flat doors upon my buzz request then opened her internal door. When she answered she had stripped from the waist down and only had a vest on, I walked into her front room and she then sat on my lap facing me , we then kissed and she slid my hands up her leg, we engaged in foreplay for only 2minutes to which I realised I shouldn't be doing this, I stopped apologised and left her house drove home and that was the end.
Fast forward to 2am and I was arrested at my house where she alleged I had tried to rape her, I was kept in a cell for 14 hours. Had an interview and then released on bail. I'm due back on the 16th but I'm just so worried they will believe her lies, I know being upset is a stupid excuse for seeing her but I stopped anything going further and now she is trying to ruin my life, I just can't cope
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