Hi everyone well it's nearly coming up to time for OH to answer bail
again ( on bail since Nov 15) last time was a reinterview and OIC said at the time that the case was going to CPS that was 9-10 weeks since then now. We have been trying to have as normal life as we can but now wonder what is best route for OH should we ring the duty ( who we are sure works alongside the OIC and really last time answering bail he said that he tried to speak to OIC to find out about that bail date and what would happen i.e interview but had no answers just said allow all morning . Or should we ring the OIC and ask for an update say a couple of days before. Might sound silly but feel that may be OH should just turn up as an feel they enjoy all the drama of not telling us anything .
Can anyone tell me should he expect to go back in a cell again as each time previously they put OH in cell when he gets there and also after interview OIC really is a client/ complainant person only so suppose answering my own question really . I am sure they also have cells that they use that are colder than others sounds stupid but OH said that last time they put him in furthest away ( rest were empty ) and the first one was freezing - probably a tactic to see if they can get OH to say anything to help them whilst not being able to think straight .
OH I know is trying his best to ignore everything but as time no goes on can see the absolute dispair in his eyes and no hope going through his mind . Is really hard now as coming to Easter now would normally have been sitting out eggs etc for family and maybe taking kiddies out off school none of that will prob ever happen again so feel that FA and OIC gave won already.
Thanks for letting me have a moan here and hope that today is a good one for everyone , feel a but better now .
again ( on bail since Nov 15) last time was a reinterview and OIC said at the time that the case was going to CPS that was 9-10 weeks since then now. We have been trying to have as normal life as we can but now wonder what is best route for OH should we ring the duty ( who we are sure works alongside the OIC and really last time answering bail he said that he tried to speak to OIC to find out about that bail date and what would happen i.e interview but had no answers just said allow all morning . Or should we ring the OIC and ask for an update say a couple of days before. Might sound silly but feel that may be OH should just turn up as an feel they enjoy all the drama of not telling us anything .
Can anyone tell me should he expect to go back in a cell again as each time previously they put OH in cell when he gets there and also after interview OIC really is a client/ complainant person only so suppose answering my own question really . I am sure they also have cells that they use that are colder than others sounds stupid but OH said that last time they put him in furthest away ( rest were empty ) and the first one was freezing - probably a tactic to see if they can get OH to say anything to help them whilst not being able to think straight .
OH I know is trying his best to ignore everything but as time no goes on can see the absolute dispair in his eyes and no hope going through his mind . Is really hard now as coming to Easter now would normally have been sitting out eggs etc for family and maybe taking kiddies out off school none of that will prob ever happen again so feel that FA and OIC gave won already.
Thanks for letting me have a moan here and hope that today is a good one for everyone , feel a but better now .
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