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Thought I would do a intro and just wanted to thank everyone for all the useful threads etc . Our situation is that my OH had been on bail since November last year ( very cleverly or weirdly the OIC ) took all the family dates of birth and he has been bailed 3 times all on or near birthdays now bailed to guess what 1st April. It's a living nightmare and hell he'd been Falsely accused on a charge of sexual touching and the FA is a minor and he has been set conditions meaning we have had to
leave our house another nightmare . We lost our business as they have taken all electronics phones etc . So many things that happened in my opinion wrongly when arrested they (police) waited for me to go back to my other job and then told him to go with them and he'd be back in an hour leaving them in our house on their own . They were supposed to call me out of work but came in all badges being shown to let me know where he was. Then when I got to our house they had left it lit up like a beacon every single light on inside and out probably to let the neighbours know they had there. For how long or if they had a key cut we do not know.
Don't get me wrong we have always thought the police on a pedestal and respectful / lawful but not anymore !
OH is beside himself and says his head does not think straight at all like there's a fog over his head and feels he is unable to defend himself properly . On his last Bail date they did a re- interview and threw him in the cells twice and came up with another allegation by same FA back in 2012 and picking on photos if our grand children and texts the whole thing feels a joke but is far from and he is now saying he had no life left that in this day and age they are always believed . To make mattes worse FA parents are constantly being intimidating to me when they know no one else around . We have racked our brains as too why and can ok my summise to each other our thoughts of drama queens and attention seeking the OIC is a night mare twists every little word and lies to you on everything she has said so far - that must be there training but leaves such a nasty feeling and one of total dispair sorry for the long intro and am sure you all have or are going through same things . Will be back on in a more positive next time promise .
Thought I would do a intro and just wanted to thank everyone for all the useful threads etc . Our situation is that my OH had been on bail since November last year ( very cleverly or weirdly the OIC ) took all the family dates of birth and he has been bailed 3 times all on or near birthdays now bailed to guess what 1st April. It's a living nightmare and hell he'd been Falsely accused on a charge of sexual touching and the FA is a minor and he has been set conditions meaning we have had to
leave our house another nightmare . We lost our business as they have taken all electronics phones etc . So many things that happened in my opinion wrongly when arrested they (police) waited for me to go back to my other job and then told him to go with them and he'd be back in an hour leaving them in our house on their own . They were supposed to call me out of work but came in all badges being shown to let me know where he was. Then when I got to our house they had left it lit up like a beacon every single light on inside and out probably to let the neighbours know they had there. For how long or if they had a key cut we do not know.
Don't get me wrong we have always thought the police on a pedestal and respectful / lawful but not anymore !
OH is beside himself and says his head does not think straight at all like there's a fog over his head and feels he is unable to defend himself properly . On his last Bail date they did a re- interview and threw him in the cells twice and came up with another allegation by same FA back in 2012 and picking on photos if our grand children and texts the whole thing feels a joke but is far from and he is now saying he had no life left that in this day and age they are always believed . To make mattes worse FA parents are constantly being intimidating to me when they know no one else around . We have racked our brains as too why and can ok my summise to each other our thoughts of drama queens and attention seeking the OIC is a night mare twists every little word and lies to you on everything she has said so far - that must be there training but leaves such a nasty feeling and one of total dispair sorry for the long intro and am sure you all have or are going through same things . Will be back on in a more positive next time promise .
It really is an endurance test and the waiting IMO is the worst part. Try and focus on something productive (I know it's easier said than done) I've started an online course to further my career which has been a God send this last week especially. We are also saving money and planning our move to a new area if we are lucky enough to get NFA.
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