Okay, a few months ago (September) I opened my door to go to work, to find police waiting for me and arrested me, they would only tell me that I was being arrested on the suspicion of rape, after a chilly 5 hours in a cell, my duty solicitor arrived and I gave my statement.
It turned out that my *neice* who is roughly 18 months younger than me (I'm 20 in a few weeks) had accused me of rape, giving a very wide open timeline (between Dec 14 & Aug 15) there were apparently several occasions throughout that time, but she could not 'pinpoint' a specific date.
To shorten that part of the story, I was released on Bail, due to re-attend in November, when I went, I was instantly re-bailed to attend on the 14th of January, when I attended again, I hadn't made it past the desk and I was told I was released without charge (they conveniently couldn't print the letter as the printer wasn't working)
I was happy that the ordeal was over, but now days later (a few days ago) two of my cousins (one of them is the closest family I've got, more like a brother) has been told I'm not to be around his kids unsupervised, which doesn't actually affect me as I have no reason to see them unsupervised, and the same for my other cousin.
The accuser: She has done this with other people 3 or 4 times in the past, and recently had a child (she also told the police it was mine, and obviously DNA came back and it wasn't) as well as in the middle of the timeline she gave them, (april) she had actually made a statement accusing someone else of rape (she later retracted it).
My sister (her mother) her dad, and her step dad have all cut off all ties to her since I told them what was going on (this should show how much she is known for it)
Anyway, my problem is that up until now I have had a completely clean record, and I intended to keep it that way, I don't want something like this affecting me, and it already has, I am seen as a 'risk' to children, so what happens when I have my own child? I don't feel that I should be penalised like this for something which is apparently false to everyone involved, even the police, it took them around 2 days of 'investigating' before dragging it on longer just so it didn't look half assed, her timelines didn't even match up, during the time I had only seen her 3 times (all by chance) just seeing my sister who I am rather close with, and she just happened to be there, I at no point was alone with her for even a second.
I want to know my rights, and what I can do to have this put right, as yet again she gets away with it (obviously, I'm presuming I was released due to 'lack of evidence' rather than it coming out as her bull****ting) and since I can't prove that it didn't happen, just as much as she can't prove that it did.
I shouldn't be penalised for this, the accuser gave the police a specific location where it 'happened' & I've got two witnesses (the occupiers of that place) who have told the police that the only time I have been there, I have been there with them, never alone, and never alone with her.
What can I do?
It turned out that my *neice* who is roughly 18 months younger than me (I'm 20 in a few weeks) had accused me of rape, giving a very wide open timeline (between Dec 14 & Aug 15) there were apparently several occasions throughout that time, but she could not 'pinpoint' a specific date.
To shorten that part of the story, I was released on Bail, due to re-attend in November, when I went, I was instantly re-bailed to attend on the 14th of January, when I attended again, I hadn't made it past the desk and I was told I was released without charge (they conveniently couldn't print the letter as the printer wasn't working)
I was happy that the ordeal was over, but now days later (a few days ago) two of my cousins (one of them is the closest family I've got, more like a brother) has been told I'm not to be around his kids unsupervised, which doesn't actually affect me as I have no reason to see them unsupervised, and the same for my other cousin.
The accuser: She has done this with other people 3 or 4 times in the past, and recently had a child (she also told the police it was mine, and obviously DNA came back and it wasn't) as well as in the middle of the timeline she gave them, (april) she had actually made a statement accusing someone else of rape (she later retracted it).
My sister (her mother) her dad, and her step dad have all cut off all ties to her since I told them what was going on (this should show how much she is known for it)
Anyway, my problem is that up until now I have had a completely clean record, and I intended to keep it that way, I don't want something like this affecting me, and it already has, I am seen as a 'risk' to children, so what happens when I have my own child? I don't feel that I should be penalised like this for something which is apparently false to everyone involved, even the police, it took them around 2 days of 'investigating' before dragging it on longer just so it didn't look half assed, her timelines didn't even match up, during the time I had only seen her 3 times (all by chance) just seeing my sister who I am rather close with, and she just happened to be there, I at no point was alone with her for even a second.
I want to know my rights, and what I can do to have this put right, as yet again she gets away with it (obviously, I'm presuming I was released due to 'lack of evidence' rather than it coming out as her bull****ting) and since I can't prove that it didn't happen, just as much as she can't prove that it did.
I shouldn't be penalised for this, the accuser gave the police a specific location where it 'happened' & I've got two witnesses (the occupiers of that place) who have told the police that the only time I have been there, I have been there with them, never alone, and never alone with her.
What can I do?
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