I'll keep it as short as possible so I don't give too much away in a public forum that is monitored at times..
However, Ex and Myself break up at the start of the year, I take the children under advice of the local childrens services. I return to allow mother access but beg and plead for Childrens Social Care (CSC) to send a chaperone for fear she would make false allegations. They decline.
Ex see's the children three times, then is served with family court documents and promptly makes an allegation of Rape against me.
This was made in feb, I was invited in, arrested and bailed in may- just before i was asked in. Ex partner is given a police caution(Same constabulary) for offences against myself. I am bailed for 6 weeks. She had accused me of raping her from the start of the relationship all the way up until the three contact appointments with the children.
During the family court saga, she gave 3 statements all with differing stories as to how the "Rapes" happened. And then even the statement to the police differed to. I was rebailed without attendence at the 6 weeks, then again, then again and then again. THEN again today, I have been rebailed.
HOWEVER!!!!!!!!--- A few days ago, Ex partner was given a harassment warning (My local constab) for online harassment against me.
The OIC of the FA has refused to speak to me today to confirm rebail, instead has let a call handler tell me.
This is obviously an exceptionally stressful time for me at the moment, she has accused me of raping her, abusing the children and loads of other little bits. because of these allegations, the family courts removed the children from me and gave them back to her. Because y'know, when a woman says she has been raped and puts on a huge front about how she is weak and timid- it gets believed. When really she was a vicious and consistent abuser at home.
But, in my car when i attended the station (Which was searched- They even checked my tyres to see if they were legal) I had left E-Mails and copies of her conflicting family court statements. In the emails, (sent to me after allegations were made) She was begging me to comeback to her, inviting me to her new house, telling me how much she loved me and wanted to be with me. The officer saw these, and threw them around my car like they were rubbish.
She was given a Police Caution for offences commited against myself.
She has now been given a harassment warning for harassing me.
But the investigating officer, when i initally reported the harassment to her, told me to "Grow Up". My local officers took a different view however.
But, with all the evidence facing them, showing them that it is all false, shes accused others before and this is a malicious allegation. Why on earth are they carrying it on? its ruining my life. and ruining the relationship i had with my children, whom i had full custody of for 6 months.
However, Ex and Myself break up at the start of the year, I take the children under advice of the local childrens services. I return to allow mother access but beg and plead for Childrens Social Care (CSC) to send a chaperone for fear she would make false allegations. They decline.
Ex see's the children three times, then is served with family court documents and promptly makes an allegation of Rape against me.
This was made in feb, I was invited in, arrested and bailed in may- just before i was asked in. Ex partner is given a police caution(Same constabulary) for offences against myself. I am bailed for 6 weeks. She had accused me of raping her from the start of the relationship all the way up until the three contact appointments with the children.
During the family court saga, she gave 3 statements all with differing stories as to how the "Rapes" happened. And then even the statement to the police differed to. I was rebailed without attendence at the 6 weeks, then again, then again and then again. THEN again today, I have been rebailed.
HOWEVER!!!!!!!!--- A few days ago, Ex partner was given a harassment warning (My local constab) for online harassment against me.
The OIC of the FA has refused to speak to me today to confirm rebail, instead has let a call handler tell me.
This is obviously an exceptionally stressful time for me at the moment, she has accused me of raping her, abusing the children and loads of other little bits. because of these allegations, the family courts removed the children from me and gave them back to her. Because y'know, when a woman says she has been raped and puts on a huge front about how she is weak and timid- it gets believed. When really she was a vicious and consistent abuser at home.
But, in my car when i attended the station (Which was searched- They even checked my tyres to see if they were legal) I had left E-Mails and copies of her conflicting family court statements. In the emails, (sent to me after allegations were made) She was begging me to comeback to her, inviting me to her new house, telling me how much she loved me and wanted to be with me. The officer saw these, and threw them around my car like they were rubbish.
She was given a Police Caution for offences commited against myself.
She has now been given a harassment warning for harassing me.
But the investigating officer, when i initally reported the harassment to her, told me to "Grow Up". My local officers took a different view however.
But, with all the evidence facing them, showing them that it is all false, shes accused others before and this is a malicious allegation. Why on earth are they carrying it on? its ruining my life. and ruining the relationship i had with my children, whom i had full custody of for 6 months.
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