Sentenced to 6 years..

[Shah]

Sorry if this is not in the right place to put this.

My innocent son was sentenced to 6 years today in prison and on the sex offenders registra for life
Apparently the judge was in a bad mood today!.

I really dont know where we go from here to say I am devasted is an understatement the whole thing has
been an absolute joke right from the start.

I wont ever celebrate christmas ever again and I will never ever trust the police or the justice system

my sons defence might as well have sat with the prosecution with all the good they did.
He is not a monster no way ! he's kind caring funny and I cannot belive how easy it is for someone to make up lies and destroy someons life!

Facts: NO Dates, tiny flat that the girlfriend was in at the time these so called *incidents* happened, the FA took post it notes into her ABE video and said her mum had seen them the night before.
the FA told her cousin before her mother, the ex GF does not believe it but was still on the stand crying. All this is pure revenge
Dont think the jury even saw the post it notes, everything and I mean everything even from the defence was geared up for a guilty verdict !

This started last december after my son split from his GF I do not for one minute believe the police even looked into anything, my son offered his lap top phone etc etc they were not interested

My poor son was so confident in his defence *oh they will look into the backgrounds etc etc* oh they have a team on it* did they hell!

Im actually not sure if I will even survive this as all I keep seeing is my poor son...
Right now I cannot even speak im totally broken and I will never ever get over this all I will be doing is worrying about my son 24/7 he does not deserve this. what do they hope to gain by this Punishment? he has done nothing
but hey ho maybe when he comes out he will be a real criminal!!

I swing from great anger ( to want to cause great damage to certain buildings and people ) to total depression. I do have a 24 hour number I can call but I dont want to speak
to anyone.

I dont want to cause my son any more pain but I dont see how to go on and whats the point because it seems which ever way we turn we are ****d

[AmandaF]

I can feel your pain and frustration- I now what this particular heartbreak feels like.

I have no words which can console you and yours, just that you know where I am.........
It takes a while for the dust to settle and there'll be a huge range of emotions you'll never have felt before. But all I can say is, tough as it seems, he needs you to carry on as best you can.

I'm not going to suggest any "strategies " or anything because right now the pain is absolutely raw.
Thinking about you all,

[joe_3178]

So sorry to hear this, I think all I can say is that ultimately life will get better for him, although I appreciate that feels like a long way away right now. One day he will be happy again and in the meantime your love will be so important. Lots love

[Shah]

Thank you Amanda and Joe xx

Its really really hard for me right now to stop myself from going all rambo!!

[Megane2015]

Sorry if this is not in the right place to put this.

My innocent son was sentenced to 6 years today in prison and on the sex offenders registra for life
Apparently the judge was in a bad mood today!.

I really dont know where we go from here to say I am devasted is an understatement the whole thing has
been an absolute joke right from the start.

I wont ever celebrate christmas ever again and I will never ever trust the police or the justice system

my sons defence might as well have sat with the prosecution with all the good they did.
He is not a monster no way ! he's kind caring funny and I cannot belive how easy it is for someone to make up lies and destroy someons life!

Facts: NO Dates, tiny flat that the girlfriend was in at the time these so called *incidents* happened, the FA took post it notes into her ABE video and said her mum had seen them the night before.
the FA told her cousin before her mother, the ex GF does not believe it but was still on the stand crying. All this is pure revenge
Dont think the jury even saw the post it notes, everything and I mean everything even from the defence was geared up for a guilty verdict !

This started last december after my son split from his GF I do not for one minute believe the police even looked into anything, my son offered his lap top phone etc etc they were not interested

My poor son was so confident in his defence *oh they will look into the backgrounds etc etc* oh they have a team on it* did they hell!

Im actually not sure if I will even survive this as all I keep seeing is my poor son...
Right now I cannot even speak im totally broken and I will never ever get over this all I will be doing is worrying about my son 24/7 he does not deserve this. what do they hope to gain by this Punishment? he has done nothing
but hey ho maybe when he comes out he will be a real criminal!!

I swing from great anger ( to want to cause great damage to certain buildings and people ) to total depression. I do have a 24 hour number I can call but I dont want to speak
to anyone.

I dont want to cause my son any more pain but I dont see how to go on and whats the point because it seems which ever way we turn we are ****d

Hi I hope you don't mind me commenting but I totLly feel your pain, my husband was sentenced to 13 years in March for being innocent !!! His defence team was **** too they all seemed in cahoots with each other the judge was biased as well and didn't mind us knowing it.
This will be the first Christmas in 16 years without him with us my 14 year old is lost without his dad, it's just another day for me. The justice system is completely s***!! I could say something far worse.
I'm here if you need to talk. I am going to see my husband tomorrow which helps but Friday can come and go quickly. My youngest said he wants to save up all our Christmases for when dad cones home sad then we can have one big one.
My husband said the things he sees in there is horrendous and gives him nightmares. I'm hoping he will be the same man he went in as when he comes out. I know it will affect him but one thing is for certain my daughter hasn't split us up it has made us stronger.
Thinking of you big hugs.



Megane2015

[lisamatt]

Sorry if this is not in the right place to put this.

My innocent son was sentenced to 6 years today in prison and on the sex offenders registra for life
Apparently the judge was in a bad mood today!.

I really dont know where we go from here to say I am devasted is an understatement the whole thing has
been an absolute joke right from the start.

I wont ever celebrate christmas ever again and I will never ever trust the police or the justice system

my sons defence might as well have sat with the prosecution with all the good they did.
He is not a monster no way ! he's kind caring funny and I cannot belive how easy it is for someone to make up lies and destroy someons life!

Facts: NO Dates, tiny flat that the girlfriend was in at the time these so called *incidents* happened, the FA took post it notes into her ABE video and said her mum had seen them the night before.
the FA told her cousin before her mother, the ex GF does not believe it but was still on the stand crying. All this is pure revenge
Dont think the jury even saw the post it notes, everything and I mean everything even from the defence was geared up for a guilty verdict !

This started last december after my son split from his GF I do not for one minute believe the police even looked into anything, my son offered his lap top phone etc etc they were not interested

My poor son was so confident in his defence *oh they will look into the backgrounds etc etc* oh they have a team on it* did they hell!

Im actually not sure if I will even survive this as all I keep seeing is my poor son...
Right now I cannot even speak im totally broken and I will never ever get over this all I will be doing is worrying about my son 24/7 he does not deserve this. what do they hope to gain by this Punishment? he has done nothing
but hey ho maybe when he comes out he will be a real criminal!!

I swing from great anger ( to want to cause great damage to certain buildings and people ) to total depression. I do have a 24 hour number I can call but I dont want to speak
to anyone.

I dont want to cause my son any more pain but I dont see how to go on and whats the point because it seems which ever way we turn we are ****d

Hi I can completely understand how u feel my hubby was sentenced to 5yrs and a life and the sex offenders register and a 5yr SOPO last December. I felt every emotion possible in the 2yr investigation and the last year of him being away. I have suffered anger, frustration, dread, worry, happiness (at times). I have cried so much I think I've created rivers. I am on Anti Ds and struggle daily.
I had to give birth to my 4th child (our 2nd) without him.
I just hope karma will get the lying girl, mother well entire family because I know he is completely innocent. My hubby was supposed to do what he did in a creaky old cottage when the mother was out leaving him with her 3 kids - it never happened as I have proof from the mothers psychiatric report that she NEVER ever went out. So how did these incidents happen - THEY DIDNT!! The mother told my hubby a few weeks b4 said allegations that she would "f*** up his perfect life, if he didn't leave me for her. Never did we imagine how she would do this.
It will be hard this Christmas but it does get a little easier - although for us it's harder as its our babies 1st Xmas xx
One thing I will say is that ur son must maintain his innocence no matter what the officers/probation etc say, yes it might make things harder for u all but if u have any hope of clearing his name during or even after he has done his sentence, he cannot do any SOTP courses. They may keep him on standard level and say he's high risk of re offending but don't let that deter him/ you from maintaining innocence.
Stay strong and know u are not alone xx

[innocentson]

Hi both
So sad to read both your posts.... I can identify with your pain to a small e tent eg. There but for the grace of God and right thinking jurors , we could so easily have been in the same boat.

Fortunately for us ; our son got unanimous NG a few short weeks ago. I really don't think I would have survived the alternative! Your strength is awesome and I think your family will survive with you both supporting them

I just wanted to let you know others on here are thinking of you & your cases and others will be in our thoughts & prayers ..... I wish you peace and rest over this hectic period and a big hug

[Soul2soul]

Hi Shah

Sorry about your son, if you remember we chatted a few weeks ago after and before my conviction.
Im due sentencing 7th, best Xmas ever.
Been to probation officer for PSR, dont know why i bothered. The people somewhat wanted me to say i did it and have remorse, for what. Ended up getting heated and telling them off. Im no criminal, yet 12 people think without reasonable doubt plus no evedence im guilty. They could see i was getting frustrated with their questions and they made the meeting short. ****ing assh holes.

Hope your son is coping, dont know if i will manage neva imagined myself behind bars, not even the overnight encounter let alone 6 or more years.

Stay strong, Xmas for me is doomed. Just keeping a brave face for kids but inside im dead.

PM if any concerns and chat as we on the same boat and my partner will need people in this train to carry on.

Stay strong....At least try. Dont let the devil break u.

[Lilyput]

Soul2Soul if your partner needs anyone to chat to.im here. Think you and OHs cases are similar being lulled into a false sense of security with informal chat. Cant imagine what all of you are going through massive.hugs all round.

[Shah]

Thank you for the replies awful for us all and I am so sorry..

Ohh megane xxx, well all of us my heart breaks I wish I could hug you all
and say it will get better my heart breaks for those with their little ones too

Personally soul2soul just run away make them come and find you !
I would happily given my son money to bugger off somewhere else its such an out and out joke ! I had a moped stolen did I see the police NO, my handbag was stolen did I see the police NO. Some lying little scumbag can come along and tear us apart with her lies *she is so over it now* as well ...... you really could not make it up!!!!!

We are not living just existing

I really do not understand how this is happening is there no such thing as *Common sense* then!!

we know where that FA lives and id love to chuck a brick through their window and spoil their
xmas but do you know what we are so much better that that and as the saying goes
*Revenge is best served cold*......

Hugs to all on here stay strong ( I am struggling with that right now I wanna do a Rambo! ) I will give the finger to any copper that I see I hate them with a vengence.....