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Well,eventually got OH to phone solicitor (he was nervous bless him) and he told him that we had messages to prove the person who got the person to make the accussation has been trying to persuade others (and interfering with a witness as they wanted to speak to this person) and the original threatning message that started this whole thing of (thanks to this fab forum (espech RF) in which i was able to retrieve the message.
It has various threats including to expect a knock on door from Social Services and also THIS IS NOT FINISHED!!!!! ect... (was quite interesting reading it back) oh and the other message sent to a friend had talked about "making us loose our home and family" also went on facebook of accusers mum and screenshot loads of drug reference and relevant stuff, so, our solicitor who has always been very relaxed about the case (said after interview he can't see it going to court) said that he hasnt heard anything(apparantly he would by now if it was anything bad) and he is 100% (OH said you sure not 70,80, maybe 90 and he said no, 100%) sure that next week he will either get a phonecall in the morning to be told NFA or you will go in and be told NFA. He said with everything you have there is no possibility that this could be taken furthur.
Man did i struggle with this, i have taught myself over the last 6 months to never ever ever get my hopes up but how can i not when our solicitor is saying he is 100% expecting a NFA next week????? After husband phoned i literally collapsed on the floor crying, (phonecall on wednesday) and was so ill that night, and yesterday, and still ache all over, (i think its just pure exhaustion) but i am so so fighting to not get my hopes up, i just cannot believe it until the police say, even though their has been so many signs that the accuser has already been told the outcome (i thought this 2 days before the phonecall).
Arghhh jut dont know what to think!!! Was told by solcitor that the police probably havent told us/him yet because they want it to look like their doing their job properly and wait right up until bail date... he said just relax, and enjoy your christmas as a family!!!!!!! (relax, how can anyone say relax right now????
So I just thought i'll update you and see your opinions on how i should be thinking, should i be getting my hopes up or should i remain doubtful about the information until it comes out of the police's mouth??????
Thanks All
Well,eventually got OH to phone solicitor (he was nervous bless him) and he told him that we had messages to prove the person who got the person to make the accussation has been trying to persuade others (and interfering with a witness as they wanted to speak to this person) and the original threatning message that started this whole thing of (thanks to this fab forum (espech RF) in which i was able to retrieve the message.
It has various threats including to expect a knock on door from Social Services and also THIS IS NOT FINISHED!!!!! ect... (was quite interesting reading it back) oh and the other message sent to a friend had talked about "making us loose our home and family" also went on facebook of accusers mum and screenshot loads of drug reference and relevant stuff, so, our solicitor who has always been very relaxed about the case (said after interview he can't see it going to court) said that he hasnt heard anything(apparantly he would by now if it was anything bad) and he is 100% (OH said you sure not 70,80, maybe 90 and he said no, 100%) sure that next week he will either get a phonecall in the morning to be told NFA or you will go in and be told NFA. He said with everything you have there is no possibility that this could be taken furthur.
Man did i struggle with this, i have taught myself over the last 6 months to never ever ever get my hopes up but how can i not when our solicitor is saying he is 100% expecting a NFA next week????? After husband phoned i literally collapsed on the floor crying, (phonecall on wednesday) and was so ill that night, and yesterday, and still ache all over, (i think its just pure exhaustion) but i am so so fighting to not get my hopes up, i just cannot believe it until the police say, even though their has been so many signs that the accuser has already been told the outcome (i thought this 2 days before the phonecall).
Arghhh jut dont know what to think!!! Was told by solcitor that the police probably havent told us/him yet because they want it to look like their doing their job properly and wait right up until bail date... he said just relax, and enjoy your christmas as a family!!!!!!! (relax, how can anyone say relax right now????
So I just thought i'll update you and see your opinions on how i should be thinking, should i be getting my hopes up or should i remain doubtful about the information until it comes out of the police's mouth??????
Thanks All
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