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Hi im posting today as this morning I was phoned by the officer in charge of my case and NFAd. I knew this was coming as i was released from bail 3 months ago and given a report for summons notice. This was done due to my Legal Representatives contacting the Home Secretary, The Commisioner for crime for my area and the Police Complaints Commision. Im one of those people that was held on relentless rebails. 2 years its taken from start to finish and now its over, so maybe letter writing does work. My story is similar to so many, a cheating wife caught in the act turned malicious accusing me of Rape over the years we were together, and very serious assaults ranging from slaps to attempted murder all fictional, partly through child custody issues and mental illness BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder). I fought my battle with very little support as i have no family, just some very loyal friends, but it is a fight that is now over. In the last 2 years i lost everything my home, my 3 daughters, i was threatened in the street and faced upto 15 years in prison innocent. But I got through it. My health isnt great now i have pains alot down my left arm (stress and heart related) i drink every day now just to relax and i havent been able to have any intimate contact or start a relationship as i cant trust people anymore. But what hurts today is the attitude of the officer, she said the reason i was never charged is through lack of evidence, or in other words she thought i was guilty. In my mind you could have sat a 3yr old infront of the evidence and been NFAd. At the time of the accusation she moved her boyfriend into our house. I was accused of injuries that were in my accusers medical records at 12 years old. I met her at 20yrs old. I had text messages saying "You dont deserve to be treated like **** anymore, I need to get the help i desperately need, you deserve better" sent while im on bail. And still she was never questioned. That stinks.
But im here and so proud of myself, Im no Legal Expert there are people on here to deal with that but the advice i would give to anyone is NEVER EVER EVER GIVE IN, it doesnt matter how long you have to wait. Its amazing what you can take when you have too. Ive been reasonably lucky as i had good evidence, there are men in prison as i speak who are living a far worse hell than my own. My heart goes out to them and anyone who is going through this right now. NEVER LOSE HOPE I x
But im here and so proud of myself, Im no Legal Expert there are people on here to deal with that but the advice i would give to anyone is NEVER EVER EVER GIVE IN, it doesnt matter how long you have to wait. Its amazing what you can take when you have too. Ive been reasonably lucky as i had good evidence, there are men in prison as i speak who are living a far worse hell than my own. My heart goes out to them and anyone who is going through this right now. NEVER LOSE HOPE I x
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