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Hi all. Not sure where to start with this so I guess the beginning is the best place.
About 3 months a go I received a message from my neighbour to tell me that police had been to my house looking for me. Not knowing what was going on I tried calling my wife but received no answer. Panicking I jumped in the car and started driving home to find out what was going on. As I drove home I was pulled over by 2 police cars and arrested for the sexual assault of a child under 13 years old. It was my step-daughter. The claim at this point was that I had asked her to masturbate me but she had refused.
I was taken to the police station and had my clothing taken, fingerprints taken and intimate swabs were also taken. They also informed me that they had seized my laptop from the house. I was then locked in a cell. Hours later I was taken from the cell and further arrested for rape and digital penetration. I was then put back in the cell until my detention was extended at 24 hours. A few hours after this I was interviewed.
The allegation at this time was that on the day preceding my arrest I had assaulted my daughter in my bedroom after she returned from school. It is utter rubbish.
She did not return from school until just gone 3.25pm and asked if she could go out to play. I told her she had to take her mobile with her. I then realised she had walked back without her younger brother so I immediately sent her back to the school to get him. The school is about 150 yards from the house and she went back and returned a few minutes later with him, so approximately 3.30pm. I then made them both stand in the living room with me whilst I gave them a rollicking for not walking home together and they made their excuses. I then told them both to get out of my sight and they both went upstairs. We must be looking at at least 3.33pm now. I stayed in the living room using my computer for at least part of the time. As I don't have the laptop it is hard to say what I did for each minute of the time I was home but I have since been able to find some evidence using Facebook and Twitter for some of it
Before 3.45pm my wife had returned to the house. We had a coffee etc and she went upstairs for a lie down. Again I stayed downstairs on the computer and at 4.29pm I received a call from a relative on the house phone. During the call my step-daughter came downstairs to ask who was on the phone. I told her and she went back upstairs smiling.
When the call ended my wife came down and we had a discussion regarding some upsetting news the relative had told me during the call ( she was to start hospital treatment for an illness). After we had discussed this my wife said she was going back to bed and laughed that all 3 of our kids were in our bed watching TV with her.
About 5.50pm I left the house to go to a local event. Whilst at the event my wife called me sometime between 7.15 - 7.45 asking me to have a word with my step=daughter as she was playing up. She came onto the phone crying and said "Mummy kicked me". My wife came back on the phone and said she hadn't kicked her but had nudged her with her foot after she refused to go and tidy her room. I assume she was sitting on the floor. At about 8.50pm I received a text from my wife to ask if I was still going to a friends house before coming home. I replied that I was. Myself and my friend were doing a car boot the next day and we had agreed to fill my car the night before to save doing it in the morning. I finally arrived home at around 10pm.
When I walked in my son was sat on the sofa and my wife was in the kitchen making food for him. I got some food out for myself but had to wait for the microwave. Whilst waiting my step-daughter appeared in her pyjamas and I told her that she had to start behaving when I was out. My wife said she would do my food so I sat down. My step-daughter came over to me and put her arms around my shoulders and kissed me goodnight as she went off upstairs. That was the last time I ever saw her.
I sat downstairs with my wife eating my food and doing some work on the laptop. A while later I suggested that we go to bed and watch some TV. She agreed and we went up. When I walked into the bedroom my son was asleep on the bedroom floor (nothing unusual for him) and I got into bed. We watched TV with my wife's arm over me before we fell asleep. I woke during the night and the TV was still on so I turned it off.
The next morning the alarm went off at 6am but we both fell back asleep. My wife woke me again about 6.15am so I got out of bed, got dressed etc and left the house. Soon after I have left the house it appears she took the children in the car and drove over 2 hours to a police station near her parents home and made the allegations. From looking at the phone records I have found that she was on the phone to her parents for an hour the previous evening just after I had left the house ( call time is 6.10-7.10pm).
I was released from custody on bail after about 27 hours. It didn't take long for the neighbours to find out what had gone on and my car was subsequently vandalised ( 4 slashed tyres, dents in bodywork, windscreen wipers pulled off etc). I was also threatened by a neighbour in the street and so I was forced to move house.
I was rearrested a couple of weeks a go to answer more questions. They now allege that I also stuck my finger up her backside as they have found a scratch or something on it. I have never done anything of the sort to anyone in my life. I am now back on bail again.
During the interview the police revealed that in the medical report it states that "Although there is no evidence of rape that is not to say it has not happened". The worrying part here though is that they also claim to have found traces of my semen on her underwear. I have no clue as to how this happened. My solicitor says that it could be from the washing basket, being in my bed etc. How could a 10 year be raped and there be no bruising, bleeding etc etc???? Also during the interview the police alleged that I had told her that if she didn't keep still I would make her take her clothes off. They looked a bit confused when I asked them how I could have been doing the things I am accused of if she had her clothes on at the time!
Since all of this has happened I have been trying to work out what is going on. From phone records etc I can see that my wife had been calling hotels in the evening about a month before and had also been contacting estate agents about 2 months prior. Did she have this planned all along? I also found a piece of paper in my step-daughters bedroom where she was writing about how she was moving house. This was buried in loads of drawings etc so she must have known beforehand.
About 3 months a go I received a message from my neighbour to tell me that police had been to my house looking for me. Not knowing what was going on I tried calling my wife but received no answer. Panicking I jumped in the car and started driving home to find out what was going on. As I drove home I was pulled over by 2 police cars and arrested for the sexual assault of a child under 13 years old. It was my step-daughter. The claim at this point was that I had asked her to masturbate me but she had refused.
I was taken to the police station and had my clothing taken, fingerprints taken and intimate swabs were also taken. They also informed me that they had seized my laptop from the house. I was then locked in a cell. Hours later I was taken from the cell and further arrested for rape and digital penetration. I was then put back in the cell until my detention was extended at 24 hours. A few hours after this I was interviewed.
The allegation at this time was that on the day preceding my arrest I had assaulted my daughter in my bedroom after she returned from school. It is utter rubbish.
She did not return from school until just gone 3.25pm and asked if she could go out to play. I told her she had to take her mobile with her. I then realised she had walked back without her younger brother so I immediately sent her back to the school to get him. The school is about 150 yards from the house and she went back and returned a few minutes later with him, so approximately 3.30pm. I then made them both stand in the living room with me whilst I gave them a rollicking for not walking home together and they made their excuses. I then told them both to get out of my sight and they both went upstairs. We must be looking at at least 3.33pm now. I stayed in the living room using my computer for at least part of the time. As I don't have the laptop it is hard to say what I did for each minute of the time I was home but I have since been able to find some evidence using Facebook and Twitter for some of it
Before 3.45pm my wife had returned to the house. We had a coffee etc and she went upstairs for a lie down. Again I stayed downstairs on the computer and at 4.29pm I received a call from a relative on the house phone. During the call my step-daughter came downstairs to ask who was on the phone. I told her and she went back upstairs smiling.
When the call ended my wife came down and we had a discussion regarding some upsetting news the relative had told me during the call ( she was to start hospital treatment for an illness). After we had discussed this my wife said she was going back to bed and laughed that all 3 of our kids were in our bed watching TV with her.
About 5.50pm I left the house to go to a local event. Whilst at the event my wife called me sometime between 7.15 - 7.45 asking me to have a word with my step=daughter as she was playing up. She came onto the phone crying and said "Mummy kicked me". My wife came back on the phone and said she hadn't kicked her but had nudged her with her foot after she refused to go and tidy her room. I assume she was sitting on the floor. At about 8.50pm I received a text from my wife to ask if I was still going to a friends house before coming home. I replied that I was. Myself and my friend were doing a car boot the next day and we had agreed to fill my car the night before to save doing it in the morning. I finally arrived home at around 10pm.
When I walked in my son was sat on the sofa and my wife was in the kitchen making food for him. I got some food out for myself but had to wait for the microwave. Whilst waiting my step-daughter appeared in her pyjamas and I told her that she had to start behaving when I was out. My wife said she would do my food so I sat down. My step-daughter came over to me and put her arms around my shoulders and kissed me goodnight as she went off upstairs. That was the last time I ever saw her.
I sat downstairs with my wife eating my food and doing some work on the laptop. A while later I suggested that we go to bed and watch some TV. She agreed and we went up. When I walked into the bedroom my son was asleep on the bedroom floor (nothing unusual for him) and I got into bed. We watched TV with my wife's arm over me before we fell asleep. I woke during the night and the TV was still on so I turned it off.
The next morning the alarm went off at 6am but we both fell back asleep. My wife woke me again about 6.15am so I got out of bed, got dressed etc and left the house. Soon after I have left the house it appears she took the children in the car and drove over 2 hours to a police station near her parents home and made the allegations. From looking at the phone records I have found that she was on the phone to her parents for an hour the previous evening just after I had left the house ( call time is 6.10-7.10pm).
I was released from custody on bail after about 27 hours. It didn't take long for the neighbours to find out what had gone on and my car was subsequently vandalised ( 4 slashed tyres, dents in bodywork, windscreen wipers pulled off etc). I was also threatened by a neighbour in the street and so I was forced to move house.
I was rearrested a couple of weeks a go to answer more questions. They now allege that I also stuck my finger up her backside as they have found a scratch or something on it. I have never done anything of the sort to anyone in my life. I am now back on bail again.
During the interview the police revealed that in the medical report it states that "Although there is no evidence of rape that is not to say it has not happened". The worrying part here though is that they also claim to have found traces of my semen on her underwear. I have no clue as to how this happened. My solicitor says that it could be from the washing basket, being in my bed etc. How could a 10 year be raped and there be no bruising, bleeding etc etc???? Also during the interview the police alleged that I had told her that if she didn't keep still I would make her take her clothes off. They looked a bit confused when I asked them how I could have been doing the things I am accused of if she had her clothes on at the time!
Since all of this has happened I have been trying to work out what is going on. From phone records etc I can see that my wife had been calling hotels in the evening about a month before and had also been contacting estate agents about 2 months prior. Did she have this planned all along? I also found a piece of paper in my step-daughters bedroom where she was writing about how she was moving house. This was buried in loads of drawings etc so she must have known beforehand.
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