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right, every now and then i do a quick search on google for the name of the woman who accused my husband. It has never yielded anything, but the other day it came up with the goods. Obviously i can't say too much, but it gave me a means of contacting her via a 3rd party.
i would love to get in touch with her and rage at her over what she did to us. not just the false accusation and the jail term, but the lies she told afterwards to mutual acquaintances. she told these people that he was serving 5 years, (it was actually 12 months,) that he was convicted of rape (it was indecent assault,) and that during the trial it had "come out" that he had been accused before, but there hadn't been enough evidence to go to trial (absolute nonsense!). she also told them that i had left him...strange, considering our second child was born this summer.
i haven't told my husband that i have located her. this is a difficult time of year for us, because he first told me of the allegation 2 weeks before christmas 2003, and he came home from prison on the 17th December 2 years ago. if he knew that i have been looking for her it might tip him over the edge.
what should i do? in my heart i would like to go and knock the stuffing out of the lying, scheming, despicable little .....
in my head i know i should just keep my head down and get on with it, serene in the knowledge that she will get her come uppance one day. karma, what goes around comes around, and so on.
i am in turmoil. i can't really talk to anyone about this because my family all think i have buried it and moved on. it's good to be able to rant about it here.
i would love to get in touch with her and rage at her over what she did to us. not just the false accusation and the jail term, but the lies she told afterwards to mutual acquaintances. she told these people that he was serving 5 years, (it was actually 12 months,) that he was convicted of rape (it was indecent assault,) and that during the trial it had "come out" that he had been accused before, but there hadn't been enough evidence to go to trial (absolute nonsense!). she also told them that i had left him...strange, considering our second child was born this summer.
i haven't told my husband that i have located her. this is a difficult time of year for us, because he first told me of the allegation 2 weeks before christmas 2003, and he came home from prison on the 17th December 2 years ago. if he knew that i have been looking for her it might tip him over the edge.
what should i do? in my heart i would like to go and knock the stuffing out of the lying, scheming, despicable little .....
in my head i know i should just keep my head down and get on with it, serene in the knowledge that she will get her come uppance one day. karma, what goes around comes around, and so on.
i am in turmoil. i can't really talk to anyone about this because my family all think i have buried it and moved on. it's good to be able to rant about it here.
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