Hi.
I wrote an in-depth overview of my situation but my computer suddenly reset and I lost it all. To be honest I nearly hit my computer screen. This is the first time I have ever come looking for support
I have been falsely accused by Child Protection of abusing a girl, I don't even know the specifics, I just know that it has been "confirmed" by Child Protection. I am lucky that at this stage no criminal charges have been laid- so far. Although I had a weird experience where I suspect I was being followed by undercover police. It was truly bizarre but it could be coincidental and a misinterpretation.
All the various people in my life that i loved have been ripped away.
I cannot have any contact with my best friend, who is a female. They have told her if she contacts me at all they will take her children away in effect. They physically examined her daughter and forensically interviewed her, and found NO evidence of abuse, but still will not let me have contact with her because of the original historical allegation of abuse. I have a VERY close bond to her and her daughter, we were very close, family to each other. They have even forced the mother to delete and remove ALL photos of me that the daughter had access to including photos of us all together.
I have certainly, and I will only say this once, I have NEVER in any way ever abused a child, and I certainly know what abuse is. I have absolutely zero sympathy for true abusers of women or children, I absolutely believe they should suffer extensive, long terms of imprisonment.
As I am on a low income and cannot afford legal support I have come to realize that there is no real way I can fight Child Protection, and I basically have to avoid being close to anybody that happens to have children lest they come in and threaten them as well. Most of my friends are poor and disadvantaged and don't have the money to fight in court, but who is going to want to risk their children being taken away for associating with me?
I am very fortunate, in that even though I can't contact my best friend I know she 100% believes in me and wishes she could see me. I also have the support of various other people including the entire family of the girl I have been "convicted" (by Child Protection) of abusing.
I guess my story is not as bad as some peoples- not yet. I have never been charged with any offence, but I have lost the people I consider family, and the whole matter of being alleged to be a sexual abuser of children, has had a horrendous effect on me mentally. I constantly have bad dreams and night mares, and I sort of obsessed and unable to stop thinking about the matter.I have gone through ALL the various types of emotions. I am suffering from serious mental trauma.
I am here not just for myself but to offer empathy and support for ANYONE else falsely accused of a sex crime, and I will presume your innocence on here, unless I am given very good reason to think otherwise.
Nobody really understands what I am going through, I can't talk to people about it, people ASSUME the worst and have no empathy if you even bring up the matter. And I have no idea who to explain it to people, because the situation is extraordinarily complex.
We all know we are guilty until proven innocent.
I have only lost my reputation and everything that brings happiness and meaning to my life, and they have hurt the people I love. At least I have my freedom though.
I am trying, on my own, to fight this, I find going into it in detail though has a very negative effect on my mental health. I have to keep focusing on the matter, when I very much need to purge it out of my head.
Take care everyone. i will be sticking around to offer support. I have not offered very much specific information, as I am terrified of being persecuted further by Child Protection or perhaps even the police.
I have really lost faith in society and humanity, and if I had the money and means I would leave my country forever and renounce my citizenship. I said this to someone and they said this would make me look guilty if I got up and left. However I very much wish to live somewhere where the government does not have the power to do this to me, based on secret evidence, and secret witnesses, and a whole process where I cannot defend myself.
I understand the need the protect children from abuse, but there has to be a better way than utterly destroying the lives and emotional well being of people who are entirely innocent.
Bye
I wrote an in-depth overview of my situation but my computer suddenly reset and I lost it all. To be honest I nearly hit my computer screen. This is the first time I have ever come looking for support
I have been falsely accused by Child Protection of abusing a girl, I don't even know the specifics, I just know that it has been "confirmed" by Child Protection. I am lucky that at this stage no criminal charges have been laid- so far. Although I had a weird experience where I suspect I was being followed by undercover police. It was truly bizarre but it could be coincidental and a misinterpretation.
All the various people in my life that i loved have been ripped away.
I cannot have any contact with my best friend, who is a female. They have told her if she contacts me at all they will take her children away in effect. They physically examined her daughter and forensically interviewed her, and found NO evidence of abuse, but still will not let me have contact with her because of the original historical allegation of abuse. I have a VERY close bond to her and her daughter, we were very close, family to each other. They have even forced the mother to delete and remove ALL photos of me that the daughter had access to including photos of us all together.
I have certainly, and I will only say this once, I have NEVER in any way ever abused a child, and I certainly know what abuse is. I have absolutely zero sympathy for true abusers of women or children, I absolutely believe they should suffer extensive, long terms of imprisonment.
As I am on a low income and cannot afford legal support I have come to realize that there is no real way I can fight Child Protection, and I basically have to avoid being close to anybody that happens to have children lest they come in and threaten them as well. Most of my friends are poor and disadvantaged and don't have the money to fight in court, but who is going to want to risk their children being taken away for associating with me?
I am very fortunate, in that even though I can't contact my best friend I know she 100% believes in me and wishes she could see me. I also have the support of various other people including the entire family of the girl I have been "convicted" (by Child Protection) of abusing.
I guess my story is not as bad as some peoples- not yet. I have never been charged with any offence, but I have lost the people I consider family, and the whole matter of being alleged to be a sexual abuser of children, has had a horrendous effect on me mentally. I constantly have bad dreams and night mares, and I sort of obsessed and unable to stop thinking about the matter.I have gone through ALL the various types of emotions. I am suffering from serious mental trauma.
I am here not just for myself but to offer empathy and support for ANYONE else falsely accused of a sex crime, and I will presume your innocence on here, unless I am given very good reason to think otherwise.
Nobody really understands what I am going through, I can't talk to people about it, people ASSUME the worst and have no empathy if you even bring up the matter. And I have no idea who to explain it to people, because the situation is extraordinarily complex.
We all know we are guilty until proven innocent.
I have only lost my reputation and everything that brings happiness and meaning to my life, and they have hurt the people I love. At least I have my freedom though.
I am trying, on my own, to fight this, I find going into it in detail though has a very negative effect on my mental health. I have to keep focusing on the matter, when I very much need to purge it out of my head.
Take care everyone. i will be sticking around to offer support. I have not offered very much specific information, as I am terrified of being persecuted further by Child Protection or perhaps even the police.
I have really lost faith in society and humanity, and if I had the money and means I would leave my country forever and renounce my citizenship. I said this to someone and they said this would make me look guilty if I got up and left. However I very much wish to live somewhere where the government does not have the power to do this to me, based on secret evidence, and secret witnesses, and a whole process where I cannot defend myself.
I understand the need the protect children from abuse, but there has to be a better way than utterly destroying the lives and emotional well being of people who are entirely innocent.
Bye
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