Hey guys and gals,
i would introduce myself but i would like to keep my identity as far away from this thread as i can (i hope you understand)
Ok so let me explain something about my case so you can get the picture this may take awhile so bare with me.
Right last thursday i was eating my tea with my son (hes 1) and my partner when we had a knock on the door i answered it to see see 2 officers in formal clothing and a social worker at first i wasnt gonna let them in as i dont trust anyone who claims they have authority being a freeman and all
anyway i let them in to be told practically nothing just i was accused of a sex offence and i have to leave now i couldn't leave as i work from home and its very demanding so my partner left with our son to a relatives
so i repeatetly contacted the police over and over again until i finally got in touch with the officer in charge to be told to come to a voluntary interview
so i went to that this week and found that my best mates ex's daughter accused me of child abuse when she was 10-11 i think saying on 2 occasions i apparently forced oral sex to my dismay i listened to the officer and answered the questions as best to my knowledge as i understand our right to silence never helps anymore i also believed that answering the questions was going to help me in this case and i will explain why in abit
so now the strange bit about the accuser and my friend
i met my mate (for the purpose of this i will call him rick but that is not his name) so i met rick when i first moved to my location in 2006 were i also started my tattoo career i was 19 at the time in 2007 i believe he met his new partner Claire (fake name) she had 3 kids 2 young girls and a young lad (fake named) steph, toni and connor, steph being the oldest girl and toni being slightly younger and finally connor being 3 i believe anyway moving on i hung around there alot as rik was under the thumb so we used to chat in the kitchen alot i got to know the family really well and was known as uncle so this went on till i think 2011 when i received a call from rick asking if the spare room was still going i said yes
10 mins later he arrived and started to cry i hugged him and said whats going on he proceeded to tell me that toni had accused him of touching her i was shocked and stood by him he was charged and was found NOT GUILTY in court, i was his only witness and it was believed by there family that i in there words GOT HIM OFF. we were happy for him anyway upon leaving the court the girls grandad put his hand on my chest to stop me walking past and told me this wasnt over i responded it is and removed his hand from me. thats the last i had to do with the family and i never seen them again.
okay so moving on i now find that steph is accusing me of rape saying that i did this on 2 occasions when i baby sat now i dont remember a great deal of those years ago but i do know that this is false
i did babysit for rick but it was never for long and we had the agreement that the kids had to be in bed and sorted for me to just sleep while he popped out for a hour or so i remember only 2 occasions of babysitting but after speaking to rick he reminded me of more occasions but again very short time
lets talk about the accusers statement the officer said its very detailed yet was very vague nothing made sense and was only 2 pages long and the officer suggested that because i only recall 2 times i babysat and she claims 2 times that it must be true (shocking)
anyway i terminated the interview to speak to my sol and asked him if now was a good time to mention my tattoos he said yes but ask if they are in the statement first so thats what i did
i asked the officer and she said nothing was mentioned i then proceeded to tell her i had photographic evidence that my tattoos on my penis and the top of my thighs etc all around my groin she said that might be what you needed then the interview was terminated
so now i am on the waiting game
so now alittle bit about me i aint been lucky in the accused department in 2006 i was accused of rape by a lass i had a 1 night stand with and again in back end of 2007 and then again in 2012 now before some of you guys jump the bandwagon i was very active and let me tell you what cleared me
in 2006 even i was cleared as she claimed to have attacked me severely and couldn't get out it was proven as she screwed up saying i took a long shower i lived in a bedsit and to lock my door ment only using a latch no key could be used inside and i was medically examined there was no scratches no marks of any kind that would fit into her story that was NFA still ruined my life tho
next in 07 accusation came after a fight broke out i was cleared because the event was described different to the pictures she had taken of the act she failed to mention them and luckily i had the camera so it was NFA again ruined my life some more
now in 2009 my first child was born and now i had them 2 accusations floating over me social services got involved and told my partner at the time about my past and as she already knew she stood by me 2 years later they left us alone
then our relationship was so damaged at this point we couldnt fix it in 4 years i spent 4 months in the family home due to SS being around they destroyed the family anyway my ex knew i wouldn't ever stop fighting for my son and after a 1 night stand that just happened we had a row 7 days later a big row knowing what she knew the SS gave he knowledge to destroy me and thats when the 3rd accusation came up the evidence was extremely strong against here as she lied about 2 accounts i had the FB convos i had with her at the time to prove i was not there and then on the night were we did sleep together we spoke right after it on FB when i left and her sentence was "we shouldn't have done what we did we are supposed to be friends not f@@k buddies" that cleared my name and another NFA
now again ruined my life some more didnt stop me from dragging her through court for almost 3 years tho i lost my fight to contact based on her allegations silly even tho i provided the proof they were lies can you believe that?
so my track record is terrible and because of it all i tried to take my life thanks to my partner i am alive today we were doing so well i quit my tattoo career and opened a online business that is successful and we brought another child into the world and shes pregnant again we had everything going for us and now its been destroyed again
we know my life is now destroyed unless this is NFA SS said if it is they have no other concerns and will leave us be
but if i am charged thats another story
because i dont trust the police and under advice from my sol i left a few things out from the copper like a few other tattoos and my piercings that existed then and whether i am circumcised or otherwise incase the officer gives the info provided
so what can i do i understand my defense is pretty strong the interview lasted 30mins and it wasn't a interrogation just did you do this and how do you know them
what do you guys think? please dont judge me my past may not be well sometimes there's a few who are really unlucky
Also i forgot to mention i believe this is a act of revenge for apparently "getting him off" for her sister not to mention her mother knew of my past also
i would introduce myself but i would like to keep my identity as far away from this thread as i can (i hope you understand)
Ok so let me explain something about my case so you can get the picture this may take awhile so bare with me.
Right last thursday i was eating my tea with my son (hes 1) and my partner when we had a knock on the door i answered it to see see 2 officers in formal clothing and a social worker at first i wasnt gonna let them in as i dont trust anyone who claims they have authority being a freeman and all
anyway i let them in to be told practically nothing just i was accused of a sex offence and i have to leave now i couldn't leave as i work from home and its very demanding so my partner left with our son to a relatives
so i repeatetly contacted the police over and over again until i finally got in touch with the officer in charge to be told to come to a voluntary interview
so i went to that this week and found that my best mates ex's daughter accused me of child abuse when she was 10-11 i think saying on 2 occasions i apparently forced oral sex to my dismay i listened to the officer and answered the questions as best to my knowledge as i understand our right to silence never helps anymore i also believed that answering the questions was going to help me in this case and i will explain why in abit
so now the strange bit about the accuser and my friend
i met my mate (for the purpose of this i will call him rick but that is not his name) so i met rick when i first moved to my location in 2006 were i also started my tattoo career i was 19 at the time in 2007 i believe he met his new partner Claire (fake name) she had 3 kids 2 young girls and a young lad (fake named) steph, toni and connor, steph being the oldest girl and toni being slightly younger and finally connor being 3 i believe anyway moving on i hung around there alot as rik was under the thumb so we used to chat in the kitchen alot i got to know the family really well and was known as uncle so this went on till i think 2011 when i received a call from rick asking if the spare room was still going i said yes
10 mins later he arrived and started to cry i hugged him and said whats going on he proceeded to tell me that toni had accused him of touching her i was shocked and stood by him he was charged and was found NOT GUILTY in court, i was his only witness and it was believed by there family that i in there words GOT HIM OFF. we were happy for him anyway upon leaving the court the girls grandad put his hand on my chest to stop me walking past and told me this wasnt over i responded it is and removed his hand from me. thats the last i had to do with the family and i never seen them again.
okay so moving on i now find that steph is accusing me of rape saying that i did this on 2 occasions when i baby sat now i dont remember a great deal of those years ago but i do know that this is false
i did babysit for rick but it was never for long and we had the agreement that the kids had to be in bed and sorted for me to just sleep while he popped out for a hour or so i remember only 2 occasions of babysitting but after speaking to rick he reminded me of more occasions but again very short time
lets talk about the accusers statement the officer said its very detailed yet was very vague nothing made sense and was only 2 pages long and the officer suggested that because i only recall 2 times i babysat and she claims 2 times that it must be true (shocking)
anyway i terminated the interview to speak to my sol and asked him if now was a good time to mention my tattoos he said yes but ask if they are in the statement first so thats what i did
i asked the officer and she said nothing was mentioned i then proceeded to tell her i had photographic evidence that my tattoos on my penis and the top of my thighs etc all around my groin she said that might be what you needed then the interview was terminated
so now i am on the waiting game
so now alittle bit about me i aint been lucky in the accused department in 2006 i was accused of rape by a lass i had a 1 night stand with and again in back end of 2007 and then again in 2012 now before some of you guys jump the bandwagon i was very active and let me tell you what cleared me
in 2006 even i was cleared as she claimed to have attacked me severely and couldn't get out it was proven as she screwed up saying i took a long shower i lived in a bedsit and to lock my door ment only using a latch no key could be used inside and i was medically examined there was no scratches no marks of any kind that would fit into her story that was NFA still ruined my life tho
next in 07 accusation came after a fight broke out i was cleared because the event was described different to the pictures she had taken of the act she failed to mention them and luckily i had the camera so it was NFA again ruined my life some more
now in 2009 my first child was born and now i had them 2 accusations floating over me social services got involved and told my partner at the time about my past and as she already knew she stood by me 2 years later they left us alone
then our relationship was so damaged at this point we couldnt fix it in 4 years i spent 4 months in the family home due to SS being around they destroyed the family anyway my ex knew i wouldn't ever stop fighting for my son and after a 1 night stand that just happened we had a row 7 days later a big row knowing what she knew the SS gave he knowledge to destroy me and thats when the 3rd accusation came up the evidence was extremely strong against here as she lied about 2 accounts i had the FB convos i had with her at the time to prove i was not there and then on the night were we did sleep together we spoke right after it on FB when i left and her sentence was "we shouldn't have done what we did we are supposed to be friends not f@@k buddies" that cleared my name and another NFA
now again ruined my life some more didnt stop me from dragging her through court for almost 3 years tho i lost my fight to contact based on her allegations silly even tho i provided the proof they were lies can you believe that?
so my track record is terrible and because of it all i tried to take my life thanks to my partner i am alive today we were doing so well i quit my tattoo career and opened a online business that is successful and we brought another child into the world and shes pregnant again we had everything going for us and now its been destroyed again
we know my life is now destroyed unless this is NFA SS said if it is they have no other concerns and will leave us be
but if i am charged thats another story
because i dont trust the police and under advice from my sol i left a few things out from the copper like a few other tattoos and my piercings that existed then and whether i am circumcised or otherwise incase the officer gives the info provided
so what can i do i understand my defense is pretty strong the interview lasted 30mins and it wasn't a interrogation just did you do this and how do you know them
what do you guys think? please dont judge me my past may not be well sometimes there's a few who are really unlucky
Also i forgot to mention i believe this is a act of revenge for apparently "getting him off" for her sister not to mention her mother knew of my past also
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