Nightmare, you're not kidding

[Steve HAY]

My wife of ten years has had me charged with rape. I've now been on bail 9 months. The first charge is 10 years ago when we first met. This charge
she claims happened in a 2nd class sleeper train in Malaysia. 2nd class is a compartment with bunks that are covered with a curtain. There are 60 other
people in the same compartment. Please go online and view photo's of this train. No scream or shouting for help???. AND the police believe it. My wife
was, untill I was forced by the police to move out of the house taking 800 mg of pregabiln three times a day. Also tablets called prochlorperrazine.
I believe these are for schizophrenia. She as a young girl brought the same charges against her parents. The police know all this and I'm the one
getting the raw end. My age is 66. I now live in a warden asissted place because my health has gone down that much. You see the only way to remove
me from the house was to bring charges against me. Council bye laws state: you must stay in the property untill a court order is given to remove you.
She knows this. As I said the only way to get me removed was scream rape. I believe today this is a womans escape tool. Sorry to women who
are raped against there will but there are women out there who are using rape as an escape tool. I'm happy that the previous person has someone
to help. Me, at my age the only one is my doctor. I sit in my flat thinking at 66 if I get 10 yrs it's a death penatly for me. I look at the pills I take
thinking if I take them all will I not wake up tomorrow. I am just sick to death of this nightmare. YES NIGHTMARE IT IS,

[YearsOfHell]

My wife of ten years has had me charged with rape. I've now been on bail 9 months. The first charge is 10 years ago when we first met. This charge
she claims happened in a 2nd class sleeper train in Malaysia. 2nd class is a compartment with bunks that are covered with a curtain. There are 60 other
people in the same compartment. Please go online and view photo's of this train. No scream or shouting for help???. AND the police believe it. My wife
was, untill I was forced by the police to move out of the house taking 800 mg of pregabiln three times a day. Also tablets called prochlorperrazine.
I believe these are for schizophrenia. She as a young girl brought the same charges against her parents. The police know all this and I'm the one
getting the raw end. My age is 66. I now live in a warden asissted place because my health has gone down that much. You see the only way to remove
me from the house was to bring charges against me. Council bye laws state: you must stay in the property untill a court order is given to remove you.
She knows this. As I said the only way to get me removed was scream rape. I believe today this is a womans escape tool. Sorry to women who
are raped against there will but there are women out there who are using rape as an escape tool. I'm happy that the previous person has someone
to help. Me, at my age the only one is my doctor. I sit in my flat thinking at 66 if I get 10 yrs it's a death penatly for me. I look at the pills I take
thinking if I take them all will I not wake up tomorrow. I am just sick to death of this nightmare. YES NIGHTMARE IT IS,

You have come to the right place, there are others in very similar situations and the people here who have been through this hell are able to offer practical help.
I'm sure some will be offering you support.
It is the worst nightmare we have ever endured and the worst case scenario is always there in mind.
You are not alone now.
There are lots of us here to support each other through this.
Don't give up. It's a battle and sometimes its too much to bear but take heart that people have got through this and they have survived!
Stay calm and keep talking on here where people understand what you're going through.

[Steve HAY]

Thank you

Whoevere you are who answered THANK YOU.

[Casehardened]

Hi and welcome to the forum,

I've moved your posts to a separate thread so that you may receive support without it getting mixed up with that for Yearsofhell.

NB hopefully your username is not your real one!!

[inhell]

Hi sorry to hear the nightmare your in I was on bail 11 months and have now been charged. There's people that get nfa, I know exactly how your feeling I sit on my own every day but you have to remain strong I've had some v low days too but I'm coping I know its v hard and its a horrible waiting game but your not alone there is some wonderful people on here with a huge amount of knowledge they have been a great help. Please don't give up if you need anyone talk too message me and I ring you. Hang in there