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A bit of a long story so will try to put it in a nutshell
Met my ex partner in 2006, got together with her in jan 2007. She got pregnant very fast and we had our first child in october 2007. Got married in 2009, 2nd child born In feb 2009. Had a brief sepeseparation for 2 months at the end of 2010 but we both stayed in the family home. Got back together in jan 2011 and attended marriage counselling, 3rd child born april 2012. Marriage ended in may 2013 after partner accused me of hitting our son.
Turned out partner had already had plans in motion with her sol to get an occupation order and only reported me to ss about the alleged assault of my son after she had applied to the courts for the occupation order. My sol said at the time that it had all been done with perfect timing so that when we went to court ss would still be investigating me and the courts would have no choice but to side with my ex and give her the order.
What I wasnt prepared for was the other allegations in her statment to the courts, she basically said that on multiple occasions while we were married and sharing a bed, she had woke up in the morning knowing sne had had sex but had no recollection of it. She also stated that on one occasion I had come to bed and tried to remove her pyjama bottoms I had then licked my hand and rubed her privates and tried to penetrate her but gave up and went to sleep. She said during this alleged attack she had been awake but didnt say anything she had simply rolled away to try and stop me. She also stated that she believed I had been drugging her by putting nytol in her food and drinks to knock her out so I could basically rape her.
She never made an official complaint to the police and nothing was ever done about it.
Now almost 2 years later I find myself in a similar situation, xwife has accused me of strangling my son whilst I had the 3 kids with me for the weekend, hard thing ismy son who is 5 now is also saying the same thing even though my current partner who I live with can verify it didnt happen. Ss arnt interested and have told me that as my son has accused me im not allowed any unsupervised contact with my kids, and ss arnt interested in talking to my partner. I have also had to attend a voluntary police interview yesterday to answer to the police about strangling my son.
But during the interview they said there was another matter they needed to discuss as it turns out my partner has spoke about the times she had woke up feeling like she had had sex, about me trhing to remove her pajama bottoms and trying to penetrate her and about me drugging her with nytol. The police said she has not made an official report about this but im now scared to death that she will.
All her allegations are rubbish and she has no proof to back them up only her word. There were times I would go to bed and fancy sex and would try to wake my partner if she was asleep to see if she was interested but what husband hasnt ? There were times I woke up with her touching me but I wouldn't cry assault. If ever I gried to initiate sex she woukd either be responsive or would verbally say no or simply roll over or something in these cases id simply say "OH WELL" and go to sleep, but i have never tried to have sex with her while she was asleep and i have never tried to drug her.
She does all sorts to try and hurt me and get revenge when I wont do as she askes or give in to her demands, normally she denies me access to my kids for a week or so, she has in tne past told them I dont love them in front of me etc
Although I know she hasnt made a official complaint about these alleged sexual assault im scared to death she will if the police dont do anything regarding me allegedly strangling my son
Any advice would help as im worried sick
Matt
Met my ex partner in 2006, got together with her in jan 2007. She got pregnant very fast and we had our first child in october 2007. Got married in 2009, 2nd child born In feb 2009. Had a brief sepeseparation for 2 months at the end of 2010 but we both stayed in the family home. Got back together in jan 2011 and attended marriage counselling, 3rd child born april 2012. Marriage ended in may 2013 after partner accused me of hitting our son.
Turned out partner had already had plans in motion with her sol to get an occupation order and only reported me to ss about the alleged assault of my son after she had applied to the courts for the occupation order. My sol said at the time that it had all been done with perfect timing so that when we went to court ss would still be investigating me and the courts would have no choice but to side with my ex and give her the order.
What I wasnt prepared for was the other allegations in her statment to the courts, she basically said that on multiple occasions while we were married and sharing a bed, she had woke up in the morning knowing sne had had sex but had no recollection of it. She also stated that on one occasion I had come to bed and tried to remove her pyjama bottoms I had then licked my hand and rubed her privates and tried to penetrate her but gave up and went to sleep. She said during this alleged attack she had been awake but didnt say anything she had simply rolled away to try and stop me. She also stated that she believed I had been drugging her by putting nytol in her food and drinks to knock her out so I could basically rape her.
She never made an official complaint to the police and nothing was ever done about it.
Now almost 2 years later I find myself in a similar situation, xwife has accused me of strangling my son whilst I had the 3 kids with me for the weekend, hard thing ismy son who is 5 now is also saying the same thing even though my current partner who I live with can verify it didnt happen. Ss arnt interested and have told me that as my son has accused me im not allowed any unsupervised contact with my kids, and ss arnt interested in talking to my partner. I have also had to attend a voluntary police interview yesterday to answer to the police about strangling my son.
But during the interview they said there was another matter they needed to discuss as it turns out my partner has spoke about the times she had woke up feeling like she had had sex, about me trhing to remove her pajama bottoms and trying to penetrate her and about me drugging her with nytol. The police said she has not made an official report about this but im now scared to death that she will.
All her allegations are rubbish and she has no proof to back them up only her word. There were times I would go to bed and fancy sex and would try to wake my partner if she was asleep to see if she was interested but what husband hasnt ? There were times I woke up with her touching me but I wouldn't cry assault. If ever I gried to initiate sex she woukd either be responsive or would verbally say no or simply roll over or something in these cases id simply say "OH WELL" and go to sleep, but i have never tried to have sex with her while she was asleep and i have never tried to drug her.
She does all sorts to try and hurt me and get revenge when I wont do as she askes or give in to her demands, normally she denies me access to my kids for a week or so, she has in tne past told them I dont love them in front of me etc
Although I know she hasnt made a official complaint about these alleged sexual assault im scared to death she will if the police dont do anything regarding me allegedly strangling my son
Any advice would help as im worried sick
Matt
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