I am a real mess at the minute I need some advice or support ill start by telling my story.
I am 19 years old and was on a night out late August last year with a group of close friends we all drank a lot of alcohol and by the end of the night one of my friends had a big argument with his girlfriend and went home leaving me with his girlfriend who was a friend of mine and her friend. By this point all the pubs had shut she told me she lost her house keys and had nowhere I got us all in a taxi and asked the driver to go in the direction of her boyfriend to see if he had them but we all ended up at my house having a few drinks after a while her friend left and in a stupid drunken state I slept with my friends girlfriend... It tore me apart the next day that I did that to my friend but we both agreed it was best not to tell him the following night we all went out again it was really hard for me to act normal being with my friend and his girlfriend who I slept with behind his back the next day I carrie don drinking as I was so down and ended up walking to his house to tell him what had happened man to man as soon as I told hi, he was so angry and didn't let me explain after that he confronted her and she said she didn't remember anything and reported rape to the police, with her friend backing her story up. The next day I was arrested and interviewed and released on bail I have been retailed since then but can't stop thinking about it almost been 6 months and its killed me every day it's tore my family apart and created a lot of friction in my social life I don't know what to do my new bail is in a few weeks I don't know what to expect! I haven't done anything wrong but its likely ill have to go to court and have my face all over the local news all because of a lie. Or I might have to face another 3 months of bail its getting tough now
Clearly the case looks bad because she was drunk but so was I!!!! She says she doesn't remember much but I know she does and god knows what her friend has said to back her up
I'm a good person I've never been I'm trouble with the police I always do right by people I made a bad mistake sleeping with a friends girlfriend and I regret it every minute but She came on to me how can that be rape!,
I am 19 years old and was on a night out late August last year with a group of close friends we all drank a lot of alcohol and by the end of the night one of my friends had a big argument with his girlfriend and went home leaving me with his girlfriend who was a friend of mine and her friend. By this point all the pubs had shut she told me she lost her house keys and had nowhere I got us all in a taxi and asked the driver to go in the direction of her boyfriend to see if he had them but we all ended up at my house having a few drinks after a while her friend left and in a stupid drunken state I slept with my friends girlfriend... It tore me apart the next day that I did that to my friend but we both agreed it was best not to tell him the following night we all went out again it was really hard for me to act normal being with my friend and his girlfriend who I slept with behind his back the next day I carrie don drinking as I was so down and ended up walking to his house to tell him what had happened man to man as soon as I told hi, he was so angry and didn't let me explain after that he confronted her and she said she didn't remember anything and reported rape to the police, with her friend backing her story up. The next day I was arrested and interviewed and released on bail I have been retailed since then but can't stop thinking about it almost been 6 months and its killed me every day it's tore my family apart and created a lot of friction in my social life I don't know what to do my new bail is in a few weeks I don't know what to expect! I haven't done anything wrong but its likely ill have to go to court and have my face all over the local news all because of a lie. Or I might have to face another 3 months of bail its getting tough now
Clearly the case looks bad because she was drunk but so was I!!!! She says she doesn't remember much but I know she does and god knows what her friend has said to back her up
I'm a good person I've never been I'm trouble with the police I always do right by people I made a bad mistake sleeping with a friends girlfriend and I regret it every minute but She came on to me how can that be rape!,
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