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Hi I am new to the site, been reading a lot of other peoples situations and my story relates as most do. MY story goes like this......I got a note from the police last week asking for me to contact them.I immediately did so the same evening i got the request and the kind lady asked if i could come into the station next day or next week or whenever i was free for an interview about an incident that happened in the summer.I said most certainly as i did not see any reason i would have done anything to not want to be questioned.We agreed for next day as i said i would be unsettled as i want to know what it was about.
Next morning i googled to get an idea on what this might entail(interview by police) and immediately rang local solicitors for informed decisions if i should or shouldnt.Luckily the guy was immediately on board and said he is willing to come with me to the station for the interview and he took details of the P.O responsible for the case to get some background.A few hours later he called me and informed me it was about investigation on an alleged rape dating back in the summer.Thats when my whole life changed.I was shaken, in disbelief and my mind started working puzzled.
We met up at the station and my sol gets a word with P.O and he briefs me on the case, I immediately knew who this entailed, a 1 night stand i had had some time in the summer.Apparently she found out she was pregnant and had then claimed she had been raped. She did not make the ereport till end of October when the initial night was sometime in June.I gave my sol my account of events that evening and night.This girl we had been talking for two weeks ,before we met up for a drink and drank most of the night and she even invited me back to hers to meet her parents.At the end of the night we had sex, and the next day we chatted but both decided this wasnt going anyway, well i knew it wasnt but it was just that closure till this interview thing.My sol took me through questions i shouldnt ask and the way i should approach their questions, i am greatful i went with a solicitor.
Our stories matched except for the consent part where she claims she begged me to stop halfway through and i didnt.
The P.O only questioned me with regards to the sexual scene, who started it and the whole nonsense.I explained its a 1 night stand no passion just plain sex.You dont expect me to remember that just all i know is i never forced anyone to do anything.My interview lasted about 30 minutes and my sol informed me we just have to wait as they were waiting for some medical records to see what she had claimed then, if she had said she had sex initially then im off easily but if its otherwise then its my word against hers, but bear in mind she didnt go report till after 4 months so theres no evidence or nothing there.
My questions to fellow accused and experts are....
1) Seeing this girl only claimned this after pregnancy which am not sure its even mine could be anyones, will they put this into account.
2)This girl had confided in me about her troubled past, broken home, abused since she was young by mums diff boyfriends, will this be put into account?Clearly she is a habitual liar
3)If she cried rape October why did it take another 3 months for me to be interviwed? ii)How come i was not arrested from the go as most people have but asked to come voluntarily?
4)If she aborted already what evidence from medical records are they awaiting on? ii) If she is going to have the baby what evidence are they awaiting on as its clear sexual encounter happened?
5)What can i expect from this, worst case scenario.? I know every case differs but anyone been in a mere or similar situation.
6)Been waiting for my enhanced DBS for a new job which has taken over two months and normally would have come by now, do you think this is one of the reasons? Was meant to be taking on a new roll next week and i am confused.Will thuis accusation show up even if its not proven?
I have a girlfriend who is in the dark at the moment about this as my sol suggested to keep it quiet as it might just go away.Mind you i have two kids and if i could turn back time i would.I never cheat but i regret this but it was the alcohol and weed we had that night otherwise i wouldnt be in this mess. Only my best mate knows and we share evry secret he is the person i cry on at the moment, i havent ate for days just drinking a lot of coffee, no sleep at all. Just feel im doomed.
Help please.....am in a mess
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