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Hi everyone I'm fairly new to the website 
just wanted a little advice on something. Almost two years ago my partner was accused of raping a young girl who was supposed to be a good friend of his. Basically he had slept with her while they were both underage a few weeks after our relationship started, safe to say I was absolutely devastated. But we stayed together because I knew it was 110% not true and we needed each other. So after a hellish year and a half we had a court date, I attended with him and the judge threw out the rape charges. He was however charged with underage sex as he was 14 and she was 12 and placed on a sex offenders register for 2 and a half years plus social work supervision for 2 years. I'm just finding it really difficult now as the girl who accused him got off scot free and is able to go live her life whatever way she wants while myself and my partner (we're now coming up 17) are stuck can't go anywhere, can't have a holiday, can't live together, can't consider children, nothing. Is this right or are they just being severely strict? I just feel like we're still having to suffer at the hands of a liar, our relationship is strained because we can't have a young happy lifestyle without having to look after our shoulders! How can I carry on like this?
just wanted a little advice on something. Almost two years ago my partner was accused of raping a young girl who was supposed to be a good friend of his. Basically he had slept with her while they were both underage a few weeks after our relationship started, safe to say I was absolutely devastated. But we stayed together because I knew it was 110% not true and we needed each other. So after a hellish year and a half we had a court date, I attended with him and the judge threw out the rape charges. He was however charged with underage sex as he was 14 and she was 12 and placed on a sex offenders register for 2 and a half years plus social work supervision for 2 years. I'm just finding it really difficult now as the girl who accused him got off scot free and is able to go live her life whatever way she wants while myself and my partner (we're now coming up 17) are stuck can't go anywhere, can't have a holiday, can't live together, can't consider children, nothing. Is this right or are they just being severely strict? I just feel like we're still having to suffer at the hands of a liar, our relationship is strained because we can't have a young happy lifestyle without having to look after our shoulders! How can I carry on like this?
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