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    My bf and I have been off and on again for 14 years. In our longest gap he met someone and so did I. He had kids and I had a baby too. Our relationships ended and we found each other once more and have now a child together.

    Is ex wife has messed about using the kids as weapons for two years or more. We had enough tried mediation again and ready to take her to court. All of a sudden her younger sister makes a false alligation that he was kissing her and attempting to touch her during 4 months when he had gone back to try and make his marriage work? She also said it was all consensual.

    My house is then swaming with ss the courts wouldnt let him see his kids though now we are aloud in a secured indoor play zone 3 hours alternative Saturdays to see them with his ex sitting there with her new partner. He and i have never been told he is not aloud to be alone with our baby or my other child there are no restrictions put on him as he has not been arrested, it feels like they know its a lie but are prosecuting him anyway.

    Family court demanded cps make a decision they said yes we will charge him on 3 counts. He had given a statement though under stress he finds it difficult to talk he sometimes cant even have a conversation with me.

    The girl would have been 14 at the time, we have heard nothing from police and his sol has been trying to chase it up. His ex gave a statement along the lines of she suspected something and the accussers best friend has given some sort of statement but untill he is charged we can not see their statements.

    how long is this to take? Why are they doing this its all to stop him seeing his kids and I have to sit there and be nice to his ex. I hate this and he is becoming more mentally ill as days go on. He's awaiting hospital app as he screams and cries in his sleep hes on medication, she always said she'd split us up well if he kills himself she would have one!
    KNOWLEDGE IS POWER. SCREEN SHOT EVERYTHING.

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    Originally posted by bakedbeans View Post
    My bf and I have been off and on again for 14 years. In our longest gap he met someone and so did I. He had kids and I had a baby too. Our relationships ended and we found each other once more and have now a child together.

    Is ex wife has messed about using the kids as weapons for two years or more. We had enough tried mediation again and ready to take her to court. All of a sudden her younger sister makes a false alligation that he was kissing her and attempting to touch her during 4 months when he had gone back to try and make his marriage work? She also said it was all consensual.

    My house is then swaming with ss the courts wouldnt let him see his kids though now we are aloud in a secured indoor play zone 3 hours alternative Saturdays to see them with his ex sitting there with her new partner. He and i have never been told he is not aloud to be alone with our baby or my other child there are no restrictions put on him as he has not been arrested, it feels like they know its a lie but are prosecuting him anyway.


    Family court demanded cps make a decision they said yes we will charge him on 3 counts. He had given a statement though under stress he finds it difficult to talk he sometimes cant even have a conversation with me.

    The girl would have been 14 at the time, we have heard nothing from police and his sol has been trying to chase it up. His ex gave a statement along the lines of she suspected something and the accussers best friend has given some sort of statement but untill he is charged we can not see their statements.

    how long is this to take? Why are they doing this its all to stop him seeing his kids and I have to sit there and be nice to his ex. I hate this and he is becoming more mentally ill as days go on. He's awaiting hospital app as he screams and cries in his sleep hes on medication, she always said she'd split us up well if he kills himself she would have one!
    Hi just to let you know he is not alone my ex that I was with 13 years has done the same I believe to get legal aid I was questioned by the police back in April and had no charge at the time released without charge officer in charge said she needed to speak to my step children.

    I was threaten by my ex with I will make sure you go to prison if you don't give up the family court case and also she would send people around my house to give me a kicking if I didn't withdraw my application from court, I went weeks with worry knowing that I had done nothing wrong but the thought of going to prison from something which never happened was distroying me knowing that my ex had lied to police and ss. The worry of not seeing my kids if she managed to make people believe her lies was killing me, I got really ill with worry and had a breakdown made me that ill that I couldn't cope with my children. So I the end I had to give in to her went back to court and withdrew my application worst thing I have ever done. And guess what still no news from the poilce I gave in thinking that she would do the right thing and stop all this stupidness how wrong was I, my children have been back in her care for the last 8 weeks and nothing has changed with her still the same women I left but smarter, please make sure your bf gets to the drs trust me he needs to things don't get better and please don't give in a family court your never forgive yourself,

    I hope things get better with your bf I was interviewed back in April and still have not heared from the police it's a living nightmare not knowing weather a charge is around the corner you are stuck in limbo wake up thinking about it and go to bed thinking about it.
    But my ex is just getting on with her life now she has what she wanted I truly believe it was just about the money and still is.

    Don't give up stay strong and don't let this mess up your relationship

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    • #3
      The only way to get legal aid in FAM courts now is to clam abuse, ment to be a money saving idea from the gov, ya that has really worked and nearly every father is a rapist or a child abuser
      I was in court for 2years with me ex about are son all done and dusted then when it looks like I have to take her back to court I gat arrested for rape,

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      • #4
        That would make sence but she has chosen to be unrepresented in the family court? She also harrases our solicitor if she cant get hold of my bf about the kids and even written to the court to pester them about stuff!
        KNOWLEDGE IS POWER. SCREEN SHOT EVERYTHING.

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        • #5
          Has your bf been on here yet posting? It will help him a lot! No can say how long it will take some people get charged on there bail date or nfa or they can keep rebailing you until they have finished investigation and the cps have made there minds up weather to charge or not

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          • #6
            He has not been charged, hasnt even been arrested so there was never any bail or any conditions put on him. He went in for a voluntary interview but took a solicitor as my friend whos a police officer recommended it. The cps have only told the family court they are going to charge him. Not been contacted directly by anyone? Its like the cps panicked that the judge in the family court wanted answers so they just said yes to charging him just as an answer. No one has any information.

            My bf is unable to post on here directly its all too much for him but I care for him best I can.
            KNOWLEDGE IS POWER. SCREEN SHOT EVERYTHING.

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            • #7
              Maybe you should contact the sol that went with you and see I'd he can find out wot is going to happen, if not its to ring the oic and see wot they have to say

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