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Can some one give me some advice please, I have been in a violent relationship with my girlfriend for 7 yrs, throughout the last five she has continuously beat me some time severely needing hospital treatment then she rings the police and reports that she has been abused, I have 25 arrested for domestic violence and although i have never been charged either due to her retracting the statement or my injuries have made her claim laughable and been nfa'd off,
early on this year she accused me of oral rape, let me explain briefly , the action took place with her total consent and was in fact her that initiated the oral sex on me, a few hours later my girlfriend became very angry about something petty in the house and began beating me quite badly for about 20 minutes inc kicking me down a flight of stairs, when a neighbor told her she was calling the police on her for this she immediately rang 999 and made the false allegation of rape, I spent 20 something hours in custody and had to give some very personal samples etc, I was bailed and returned to my home,
as per usual my girlfriend retracted the statement some time later.......
My girlfriend and I got back together and again the beatings started , leading to eventually last weekend.
we both had a few drinks and went to bed after we had sex she became annoyed at some petty **** in the house again, ( just an excuse to start a row ) she beat me again quite severely and when i threatened to call the police on her she rang 999 and reported that i had again raped beat and stole from her, again and more importantly told the police that i had forced her to retract her first allegation.
i spent some 20hrs in the police cells again undergoing the intimate tests and questions and again bailed.
My girlfriend has now only a few days later decided that she wants me back and retract her statement but is scared that she will be prosecuted so intends on telling the police that she was "confused" but she will not admit that I have never raped beat or stole of her.......
Although this may once again get me out of this predicament, I do have proof via social media chats txt messages etc that the first allegation and the second were both false by her own admittance.
What should I do ?
should i give this evidence to the police and let them decide what to with her ?
Would this remove any mark against my name with the police ?
I don't want her to go to prison but she does not seem bothered if I do ?
Would she be liable for prosecution ?
If found guilty would prison be likely for her?
early on this year she accused me of oral rape, let me explain briefly , the action took place with her total consent and was in fact her that initiated the oral sex on me, a few hours later my girlfriend became very angry about something petty in the house and began beating me quite badly for about 20 minutes inc kicking me down a flight of stairs, when a neighbor told her she was calling the police on her for this she immediately rang 999 and made the false allegation of rape, I spent 20 something hours in custody and had to give some very personal samples etc, I was bailed and returned to my home,
as per usual my girlfriend retracted the statement some time later.......
My girlfriend and I got back together and again the beatings started , leading to eventually last weekend.
we both had a few drinks and went to bed after we had sex she became annoyed at some petty **** in the house again, ( just an excuse to start a row ) she beat me again quite severely and when i threatened to call the police on her she rang 999 and reported that i had again raped beat and stole from her, again and more importantly told the police that i had forced her to retract her first allegation.
i spent some 20hrs in the police cells again undergoing the intimate tests and questions and again bailed.
My girlfriend has now only a few days later decided that she wants me back and retract her statement but is scared that she will be prosecuted so intends on telling the police that she was "confused" but she will not admit that I have never raped beat or stole of her.......
Although this may once again get me out of this predicament, I do have proof via social media chats txt messages etc that the first allegation and the second were both false by her own admittance.
What should I do ?
should i give this evidence to the police and let them decide what to with her ?
Would this remove any mark against my name with the police ?
I don't want her to go to prison but she does not seem bothered if I do ?
Would she be liable for prosecution ?
If found guilty would prison be likely for her?
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