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Hi, im new too this site so just to say hello everyone, im steve im in my thirties, married without kids and in a horrible situation which im sure looking at it others are facing all the time.
3-4years ago i split up with my then girl friend aftyer having a very turbulent relationship on and off for 2-3 years, wed just lost a baby (died after two weeks of bieng born), sad too say it seemed id dodged a bullet as my life wouldve been a living hell forever if i was still connected too my ex in any way.
Any way my ex had a daughter then aged 7, who id gotten along with really well, but the relationship between me and her mother and the death of the baby, must of taken its toll on her at this point her mum was a lunatic., i argued like mad with her mum, the childs real dad never had much input andd the granparents were real wrong uns too!!any way the child just got enrolled in school in the new area wed moved too and after a few weeks me and her mum split-my doing as i thought i finally had a chance too break free.
3 years go by, i got married in nov 2013 too my very sane and great wife, i dropped some guests off after my wedding in my exs home town/village and let few people i knew there meet my wife in corner shop etc. Strangley a week after my friend in that village told me my exs bro had been knocking on his door asking for me due too what id done too his niece!!i got informed saw a future problem coming and went my local police station ask if they had heard anything or wanted a word with me...nope nothing.
Come forward4 months too this febuary the local CID call my work ask me too volunteer too go for interviwe regards an allegation i said fine.
The day came i waited, got too see my brief who explained the allegation (vaginal rape of 7 year old, whilst id tipped up home from work early, by three hours mum was out shopping, child had been released from school by herself, im supposed to of raped the girl, no blood no trauma mum comes home everyday life continued!!!sick.
Brief said this is rubbish in the case he can see im innocent, and said dont worry police have nothing.just tell the truth, which i did all way thru.
Got released-not charged not bailed nothing while they conduct their investigation-five months go by, theyve been and actually spoke too some of names i put forward my parents, my uncle and aunt etc, got a call at home saying can we speak too steve dont want too bother him at work (CID) my wife said its fine call him.
They rang and asked if i could clarify my ex wifes whereabouts from 15 years ago whoa also had a child, i told them what i knew they said we will just have brief chat with her then our investigatiion is conclueded we will see where to go from there...still no charge no bail...is this all just bs, they know its all bs and they have nothing, as the way ive been dealt with appears different too most, my briefs not fazed at all, and hes from top firm deals with such allegations, and faso the voluntary org. Ive rang seem too think it all seems positive for me, but me and my wife are still so upset and angry and rightly worried.
Sorry for long post just wanted too give you all the details any help or advise much appreciated all the best.
Ste
3-4years ago i split up with my then girl friend aftyer having a very turbulent relationship on and off for 2-3 years, wed just lost a baby (died after two weeks of bieng born), sad too say it seemed id dodged a bullet as my life wouldve been a living hell forever if i was still connected too my ex in any way.
Any way my ex had a daughter then aged 7, who id gotten along with really well, but the relationship between me and her mother and the death of the baby, must of taken its toll on her at this point her mum was a lunatic., i argued like mad with her mum, the childs real dad never had much input andd the granparents were real wrong uns too!!any way the child just got enrolled in school in the new area wed moved too and after a few weeks me and her mum split-my doing as i thought i finally had a chance too break free.
3 years go by, i got married in nov 2013 too my very sane and great wife, i dropped some guests off after my wedding in my exs home town/village and let few people i knew there meet my wife in corner shop etc. Strangley a week after my friend in that village told me my exs bro had been knocking on his door asking for me due too what id done too his niece!!i got informed saw a future problem coming and went my local police station ask if they had heard anything or wanted a word with me...nope nothing.
Come forward4 months too this febuary the local CID call my work ask me too volunteer too go for interviwe regards an allegation i said fine.
The day came i waited, got too see my brief who explained the allegation (vaginal rape of 7 year old, whilst id tipped up home from work early, by three hours mum was out shopping, child had been released from school by herself, im supposed to of raped the girl, no blood no trauma mum comes home everyday life continued!!!sick.
Brief said this is rubbish in the case he can see im innocent, and said dont worry police have nothing.just tell the truth, which i did all way thru.
Got released-not charged not bailed nothing while they conduct their investigation-five months go by, theyve been and actually spoke too some of names i put forward my parents, my uncle and aunt etc, got a call at home saying can we speak too steve dont want too bother him at work (CID) my wife said its fine call him.
They rang and asked if i could clarify my ex wifes whereabouts from 15 years ago whoa also had a child, i told them what i knew they said we will just have brief chat with her then our investigatiion is conclueded we will see where to go from there...still no charge no bail...is this all just bs, they know its all bs and they have nothing, as the way ive been dealt with appears different too most, my briefs not fazed at all, and hes from top firm deals with such allegations, and faso the voluntary org. Ive rang seem too think it all seems positive for me, but me and my wife are still so upset and angry and rightly worried.
Sorry for long post just wanted too give you all the details any help or advise much appreciated all the best.
Ste
please could you use lower case (except where capitals are needed) and paragraphs - makes it easier to read
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