11 months ago I found out my girlfriend of nearly 4 years had been cheating on me. I exposed the whole thing and dumped her. In retaliation her and her scheming family decided to accuse me of rape 6 years prior to this- which was absurd because that was nearly 2 years before I first met/spoke to her. I was never good enough for her snobbish family and they finally turned her against me after years of work.
Thankfully I have overwhelming proof their accusations were false- which is why I assume they never went to the police. But they did spread it around all my social group and friends. Just about all of my friends saw through the lies, disowned her, and have stuck by me till today.
Since then, her and her new guy got engaged and will be getting married next year i guess. I've completely erased them from my life and only see her maybe a couple times a year from a distance (religious events).
The point of my post though is regarding moving on.
It really saddens me that someone can just ruin someone who jumped through hoops for them, and then carry on a seemingly happy life with the next guy down the line. I'm waiting on karma to give me some form of justice.
Also, I have zero interest in girls anymore since that. I naturally don't open up to people in that way, and the bad experience I've had has put me off completely. I can see big trust issues looming now. I have some good friends, enjoy my work, and I'm perfectly content being single. I guess I'm even heading towards becoming anti-relationship.
Is that normal?
Thankfully I have overwhelming proof their accusations were false- which is why I assume they never went to the police. But they did spread it around all my social group and friends. Just about all of my friends saw through the lies, disowned her, and have stuck by me till today.
Since then, her and her new guy got engaged and will be getting married next year i guess. I've completely erased them from my life and only see her maybe a couple times a year from a distance (religious events).
The point of my post though is regarding moving on.
It really saddens me that someone can just ruin someone who jumped through hoops for them, and then carry on a seemingly happy life with the next guy down the line. I'm waiting on karma to give me some form of justice.
Also, I have zero interest in girls anymore since that. I naturally don't open up to people in that way, and the bad experience I've had has put me off completely. I can see big trust issues looming now. I have some good friends, enjoy my work, and I'm perfectly content being single. I guess I'm even heading towards becoming anti-relationship.
Is that normal?
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