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Hi all,
Most will probably never heard of me before, but my story is here
Just a heads up that I received my NFA last night after six months. At the point I was told, I almost burst into tears at the desk.
I know I haven't been on here much but have stayed in the background reading a few posts here and there as I felt it was my best way of dealing with it.
At certain times, I wasn't thinking of it at all and made a normality of my life (in between bails) as best as I could as I had this quite strong inner belief that nothing would happen being that my conscience was totally clear
My darkest days were the first week after I got arrested where I was scared, mostly in a daze and could not fathom how someone I'd lived with for 9 years could be so cruel, the others being a couple of days before I had to return for bail (I was rebailed twice in the eight months this all took), thinking what if they make a mistake.
I returned to the police station yesterday as I had it in my head somehow that it was the day I had been bailed to return. When I got there, I was told I was actually bailed till this weekend, however, I had nothing to answer for as no evidence whatsoever of the accusations was found on my phone, tablet and laptop that had been seized and I was free to go.
I now have today to retrieve my property from the police somehow as I couldn't yesterday and also now have to seriously think of what to do next.
I'm not bitter strangely enough but strongly feel that women who go around falsely accusing totally innocent men of rape should pay the ultimate price for their false accusations if found out to be so. If this does not happen there will be a lot of men who have to deal with the fear, stigma and life changing experience of dealing with the mess it creates.
I'm totally fortunate to have wonderful people around me and spoke about it to every one who knew me and was ready to listen. In every case where I did my narrative, the general consensus was Noooooo!! You're not like that, I can't believe this is happening to you. But it did.
I don't want to go on a rant but from this experience, I know my life or views have changed on women and rape. Yes I know it happens but I will certainly question every case of rape I hear of next.
I will be here on this site now and again, listening and willing to give advice on dealing with this awful awful situation one can be put in.
Stay happy as I am today and if you are now, where I've been in the last eight months and innocent. Believe that somehow, the truth will always prevail.
Now to see if I can get that arrest and **** off my name.
Most will probably never heard of me before, but my story is here
Just a heads up that I received my NFA last night after six months. At the point I was told, I almost burst into tears at the desk.
I know I haven't been on here much but have stayed in the background reading a few posts here and there as I felt it was my best way of dealing with it.
At certain times, I wasn't thinking of it at all and made a normality of my life (in between bails) as best as I could as I had this quite strong inner belief that nothing would happen being that my conscience was totally clear
My darkest days were the first week after I got arrested where I was scared, mostly in a daze and could not fathom how someone I'd lived with for 9 years could be so cruel, the others being a couple of days before I had to return for bail (I was rebailed twice in the eight months this all took), thinking what if they make a mistake.
I returned to the police station yesterday as I had it in my head somehow that it was the day I had been bailed to return. When I got there, I was told I was actually bailed till this weekend, however, I had nothing to answer for as no evidence whatsoever of the accusations was found on my phone, tablet and laptop that had been seized and I was free to go.
I now have today to retrieve my property from the police somehow as I couldn't yesterday and also now have to seriously think of what to do next.
I'm not bitter strangely enough but strongly feel that women who go around falsely accusing totally innocent men of rape should pay the ultimate price for their false accusations if found out to be so. If this does not happen there will be a lot of men who have to deal with the fear, stigma and life changing experience of dealing with the mess it creates.
I'm totally fortunate to have wonderful people around me and spoke about it to every one who knew me and was ready to listen. In every case where I did my narrative, the general consensus was Noooooo!! You're not like that, I can't believe this is happening to you. But it did.
I don't want to go on a rant but from this experience, I know my life or views have changed on women and rape. Yes I know it happens but I will certainly question every case of rape I hear of next.
I will be here on this site now and again, listening and willing to give advice on dealing with this awful awful situation one can be put in.
Stay happy as I am today and if you are now, where I've been in the last eight months and innocent. Believe that somehow, the truth will always prevail.
Now to see if I can get that arrest and **** off my name.
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