Hi guys,
About 4 months ago my man was arrested/charged(sexual assault). Spend the night in a police cell and went to court the next day. But was 'liberated' before appearing in court. Our lawyer said case was dropped as there's no case...but he couldn't say categorically they police will not come back. Our lawyer was good, and gave us reassurance but he was a quiet man by nature and I really needed him to say THIS IS OVER!!! We had evidence we wanted the lawyer to present to the police to try and get NFA. But he said we would never get an NFA as they leave cases open so if in eg 5/10/20 years time should another accusation be made, then the police only need the 2 accusers statements to prosecute ie they wouldn't require any more evidence.
4 months down the line the fear has certainly subsided. The fear of the police. I'm angry now, but nowhere near as angry as I was scared before. Life is getting back to normal and do you know what....I've never been so grateful for all the bloody fantastic people I have in my life who have supported us through this ordeal, they rode every wave with us. You really see people for who they really are.
I just wanted to share my story incase it could help anyone. hopefully that's my story concluded....
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About 4 months ago my man was arrested/charged(sexual assault). Spend the night in a police cell and went to court the next day. But was 'liberated' before appearing in court. Our lawyer said case was dropped as there's no case...but he couldn't say categorically they police will not come back. Our lawyer was good, and gave us reassurance but he was a quiet man by nature and I really needed him to say THIS IS OVER!!! We had evidence we wanted the lawyer to present to the police to try and get NFA. But he said we would never get an NFA as they leave cases open so if in eg 5/10/20 years time should another accusation be made, then the police only need the 2 accusers statements to prosecute ie they wouldn't require any more evidence.
4 months down the line the fear has certainly subsided. The fear of the police. I'm angry now, but nowhere near as angry as I was scared before. Life is getting back to normal and do you know what....I've never been so grateful for all the bloody fantastic people I have in my life who have supported us through this ordeal, they rode every wave with us. You really see people for who they really are.
I just wanted to share my story incase it could help anyone. hopefully that's my story concluded....
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