My Father accused of rape? help me

[myhome]

At this stage he doesn't need a specialist solicitor. The sol who goes with him if it's necessary is there to see fair play and to keep a record of what is said by who and to explain everything IF it is necessary. IF your dad is charged then you will need to look for a specialist solicitor - but as I said before, you are jumping a long way ahead - wait and see what the OIC says tomorrow, then ask these questions again IF you need to.....
RF says she'll have a look at this tomorrow if she has a mo - she has quite a lot of appeal and other stuff on as always.....
All the best for tomorrow - got to sign off now - sleep well - will be thinking of you.....

[Casehardened]

I just dont know how any of us are going to cope if tomorrow is bad news

More than a few members have posted that it is the uncertainty that is hard to cope with; once they know that a trial is coming up they are ready for the fight to clear their name and gain inner strength from this.

[Rights Fighter]

MH has asked me to contact you

I have emailed you via your profile.

I am really busy at the mo - off to Plymouth Uni to give a talk on False Allegations on Wednesday and just sent off an application to CCRC (appeal) and have two others on the go and one to come shortly.

However I will do my best to help. Please check your emails and hopefully we can talk over the weekend or just after.

[worried:(]

MH has asked me to contact you

I have emailed you via your profile.

I am really busy at the mo - off to Plymouth Uni to give a talk on False Allegations on Wednesday and just sent off an application to CCRC (appeal) and have two others on the go and one to come shortly.

However I will do my best to help. Please check your emails and hopefully we can talk over the weekend or just after.

Thank you so much for getting in contact with me, i have replied to your email and anything you can help with will be greatfully received , i will know more tomorrow what is going to happen, and my dads bail date is this Wednesday 20th

[worried:(]

IM so so so happy police just rang me and said they have dropped it all and that my dad has not to worry xxxxx

[worried:(]

i cant believe it i am over the moon, has restored my faith in police as i was so worried he would be pulled through courts etc, love him so much

[Ghost biscuit]

Hi,

I read your thread and was very anxious as it hits home that to be FA, congratulations and hope this will be a fantastic family Christmas for you all. With no worries of the police etc....

Regards,

Ghost....B

[Rights Fighter]

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Hurray!!!!!

[worried:(]

my query is, the police man said it will come up on my dads police checks now, but why does it come up if not charged or cautioned etc? anyone got a idea what happens work wise after something like this as he was suspended with pay as he is a carer

[Rights Fighter]

Many guilty people are NFA'd - so in theory everybody should have it on their DBS/ECRB check just in case they re-offend.

He could explain to potential employers what happened to him and show evidence that proves the accuser was lying....

[worried:(]

wonder if this will affect his job searching :/ i wonder if he will be sacked from this job he is in now, as he was suspended with full pay till investigation was over

[Rights Fighter]

As I said

He could explain to potential employers what happened to him and show evidence that proves the accuser was lying....

Hopefully he has some evidence that can disprove some of what she said. Also the types of places he would work in would be fully aware of false allegations.

[myhome]

WAAAYYYYYY HAAAAAAYYYYYY hurrah hurrah!!!! Give yourselves time to heal and then begin to rebuild your lives and maybe this will bring you closer to your dad.....
This may not come up on his future DBS checks. With regard to his present job there are no grounds for dismissing him. They may want to give him a bit of training and advice around boundaries though. They should also have a little with the 2 individuals involved...
In the meantime - here they are...

[Casehardened]

This is brilliant news for you and your dad; I'm so pleased to be able to unload the banana boat

[RFLH]

this is wonderful news, I'm so pleased for you and your family!