Ok so last year i met this girl after splitting with my ex partner who i am now back with and supporting me through this
i was roughly with this girl for four months (the accuser) i met her at a BBQ and was pretty much in bed with her with an hour, so anyway time had passed and we started seeing each other and she eventually told me she had been raped (should of left as soon as i heard this) anyway me being me tried to help this girl and offered to go to doctors for her to get help/advice but she wouldnt go claiming they would lock her up and give her medication.... so within the couple of months i was seeing her sex was awkward as i backed off and when we did have sex took it very slow always making sure she was ok...
she had mention at one point she would like to have a 3some with two guys, this struck me as strange as what she had been telling me within them 4 months, towards the end when a accusation appeared me and my mate had been out in town, on the way home we bumped into her and a friend, they asked up back to theirs, we went, all slightly drunk ended up in bed together (the four of us) nothing sexual had happened just a bit of banter... the other 2 went and slept on the sofa at the side of the bed which was less than a foot away from were the rape had meant to of taken place...
witness statements said that nothing was heard throughout the night and would of been very difficult not to have been if anything had happened... which nothing did
i was on police bail for roughly 6/7 months and then charged... i am pretty much in shock and its killing my girlfriend... i have kept it away from my parents as my mum is on the older end and it would completely destroy her...
i have been and seen the accusers video interview, she shows no emotion and really looks asif shes just having a girl chit-chat with the police women... totally out of the ordinary for someone whose apparently been raped
my solicitor says i have nothing to worry about but its not just as easy as that, some days are good but others are extremely bad and upsetting, i after got to a preliminary hearing end of the month to put in my plea and trial early next year..
my solicitor was totally shocked when i was charged and couldnt believe it, so now solicitor has told me all we can do is wait and see what evidence the are preparing for court, i dont really see what there can to be honest apart from her word but if they knew her like i did you cant get much from that as i now believe the first accusation what she told me about wasnt true either
i was roughly with this girl for four months (the accuser) i met her at a BBQ and was pretty much in bed with her with an hour, so anyway time had passed and we started seeing each other and she eventually told me she had been raped (should of left as soon as i heard this) anyway me being me tried to help this girl and offered to go to doctors for her to get help/advice but she wouldnt go claiming they would lock her up and give her medication.... so within the couple of months i was seeing her sex was awkward as i backed off and when we did have sex took it very slow always making sure she was ok...
she had mention at one point she would like to have a 3some with two guys, this struck me as strange as what she had been telling me within them 4 months, towards the end when a accusation appeared me and my mate had been out in town, on the way home we bumped into her and a friend, they asked up back to theirs, we went, all slightly drunk ended up in bed together (the four of us) nothing sexual had happened just a bit of banter... the other 2 went and slept on the sofa at the side of the bed which was less than a foot away from were the rape had meant to of taken place...
witness statements said that nothing was heard throughout the night and would of been very difficult not to have been if anything had happened... which nothing did
i was on police bail for roughly 6/7 months and then charged... i am pretty much in shock and its killing my girlfriend... i have kept it away from my parents as my mum is on the older end and it would completely destroy her...
i have been and seen the accusers video interview, she shows no emotion and really looks asif shes just having a girl chit-chat with the police women... totally out of the ordinary for someone whose apparently been raped
my solicitor says i have nothing to worry about but its not just as easy as that, some days are good but others are extremely bad and upsetting, i after got to a preliminary hearing end of the month to put in my plea and trial early next year..
my solicitor was totally shocked when i was charged and couldnt believe it, so now solicitor has told me all we can do is wait and see what evidence the are preparing for court, i dont really see what there can to be honest apart from her word but if they knew her like i did you cant get much from that as i now believe the first accusation what she told me about wasnt true either
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