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Hi all,
I have been following your blog for a while and finally plucked up the courage to write. It has been a lifeline in a very dark place to see that we are not alone in this. I can do with all the help and advice you guys have to offer.
Here is my story... My husband had an affair with a woman for nearly 18months, when he finally confessed to me and begged my forgiveness. He broke it off with this woman, and that is when our trouble started. She vandalised his property, harrassed us both, send him threatening text messages and would at times get drunk and shout abuse at him and his colleages outside his place of work. He finally had enough and filed a complaint with the police. She still did not stop and he had her arrested a few times for breaking her bail conditions.
A few weeks after all this, she retaliated and accused him of rape. She claimed he raped her once while they were dating.He was taken to the police station, his statement taken and he stayed all day at the police station until they released him on police bail. He now has to go to court soon, I think for the PF to decide wether this case will go to trail. He is a wreck. All the syptoms most of the people on this forum describe...depressed, sleepless, anxious, etc. This woman is a pshycopath and will stop at nothing to ruin his life! She see being arrested as a big joke and has nothing to lose, for she is living on benefits, in council housing, legal aid at her fingertips and now can claim MORE money for Rape benefits!
She spread nasty rumours about him in this small village, and his employer has received anonymous letters asking him how he can employ a rapist. We are convinced she is behind it all.
My husband and I both have to attend a couple of courtcases against her for the harrasment and stalking complaints, yet even after all of that, they still take her rape complaint seriously! Can they not see this is a scorned women retaliating? We both work, but can not afford to fork out thousands of pounds to pay for solicitors in this bogus claim.The stress is unbearable and at this moment I see no good to come from this. We have never been exposed to anything like this in our life!
A couple of sympathetic ladies have started a website to try and create awareness of this problem, and we all believe the governments compensation scheme is partly to blame for these bogus claims as well as the low figures of cases against these false accusers that are pursued. They plan to make as many waves as they can with our local politicians in addressing the problem and it would be a great help if you could perhaps like the page and maybe put your comments on it regarding your own situations. Maybe with websites like daftmoo, voiceformen etc someone will sit up and take notice.
The facebook page is called “Unfair Policies"
I am for one glad not to be a man for I only now realise how easy it is for an unscrupulous woman to ruin someone elses life. I wish I could apologise on behalf of my gender to all you wronged men out there!!!
Thank you for reading this.
I have been following your blog for a while and finally plucked up the courage to write. It has been a lifeline in a very dark place to see that we are not alone in this. I can do with all the help and advice you guys have to offer.
Here is my story... My husband had an affair with a woman for nearly 18months, when he finally confessed to me and begged my forgiveness. He broke it off with this woman, and that is when our trouble started. She vandalised his property, harrassed us both, send him threatening text messages and would at times get drunk and shout abuse at him and his colleages outside his place of work. He finally had enough and filed a complaint with the police. She still did not stop and he had her arrested a few times for breaking her bail conditions.
A few weeks after all this, she retaliated and accused him of rape. She claimed he raped her once while they were dating.He was taken to the police station, his statement taken and he stayed all day at the police station until they released him on police bail. He now has to go to court soon, I think for the PF to decide wether this case will go to trail. He is a wreck. All the syptoms most of the people on this forum describe...depressed, sleepless, anxious, etc. This woman is a pshycopath and will stop at nothing to ruin his life! She see being arrested as a big joke and has nothing to lose, for she is living on benefits, in council housing, legal aid at her fingertips and now can claim MORE money for Rape benefits!
She spread nasty rumours about him in this small village, and his employer has received anonymous letters asking him how he can employ a rapist. We are convinced she is behind it all.
My husband and I both have to attend a couple of courtcases against her for the harrasment and stalking complaints, yet even after all of that, they still take her rape complaint seriously! Can they not see this is a scorned women retaliating? We both work, but can not afford to fork out thousands of pounds to pay for solicitors in this bogus claim.The stress is unbearable and at this moment I see no good to come from this. We have never been exposed to anything like this in our life!
A couple of sympathetic ladies have started a website to try and create awareness of this problem, and we all believe the governments compensation scheme is partly to blame for these bogus claims as well as the low figures of cases against these false accusers that are pursued. They plan to make as many waves as they can with our local politicians in addressing the problem and it would be a great help if you could perhaps like the page and maybe put your comments on it regarding your own situations. Maybe with websites like daftmoo, voiceformen etc someone will sit up and take notice.
The facebook page is called “Unfair Policies"
I am for one glad not to be a man for I only now realise how easy it is for an unscrupulous woman to ruin someone elses life. I wish I could apologise on behalf of my gender to all you wronged men out there!!!
Thank you for reading this.
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