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My partner and I have been together for over 4yrs. During our first 2yrs we fought children services to get custody of his daughter who had been removed from her mothers home due to sexual allegations his daughter had made against her step father. Now, she is making the same allegations against her own father and we have both been charged with child endangerment and neglect.
I was charged with complicity to rape which was dropped at court but later picked back up as yet another child endangerment charge against me. Meanwhile, my boyfriend is sitting in jail, his bond is way more than mine was, and he has been there for a month and a half now, facing 5 counts of rape on his daughter. She is currently 13 and is saying that this has been happening almost since the time we got custody, which puts her at the age of 12 or under and Ohio law, 12 or under is a mandatory life sentence, thats just for one charge.
Upon doing our own investigation, we found out that she has claimed 5 men in a 4yr period, has raped or molested her. My boyfriend has 4 other children with his ex wife, 3 of which are girls who he had seen and had weekend visitations with all the time. I, myself, have 4 children who lived with me until children services ripped them from my home, 2 of which are the same age as my boyfriends daughter. None of the other girls have ever been touch by him, or anyone else for that matter. The police nor children services care about any of that. They think that he spent his hard earned money and 2yrs of his life just so he could mess with his own child.
We did obtain attorneys right off the bat, who informed us NOT TO TALK TO THE POLICE OR CHILDREN SERVICES!! They also informed us not to talk to each other about it as there is always that fear that i may turn on him and since we have no children together, nor are we married, the attorneys just want whats best for our individual interests. My attorney has also asked me to just stop all communications with my boyfriend and for me to leave him.
Now, i know that children services will not willingly give me back my kids if they know we are still together but i also cant leave him in jail with no one and nothing. Especially knowing he is innocent. But, i will do anything to get my kids back and if that means we can no longer be together, i will sacrifice that but I WILL NOT TURN MY BACK ON HIM nor will i let him sit in jail over a crime he didnt commit.
I dont know if i should say this here or not, but the more thats told, the better you can understand. His daughter, the one making the accusations, is a product of inbred. Her gpa and gma are 1st cousins and she has mental and physical handicaps because of this. If course, children services produced their own physiatrist to perform an evaluation on his daughter, but from everything i have read, they CAN NOT be trusted.
My boyfriends attorney is going to put in a motion to have his own evaluation and exams done but my fear is, they are giving her counseling for being a rape victim as well as coercing her into what to say, when really, they need to be getting this lil girl the help she really needs. They are teaching her that this is ok to do to ppl, to ruin their lives and send them to prison, they are teaching her that its ok to lie, and they have the nerve to say that we abuse her.
I know there is alot that im probably forgetting and as i remember, i will post. Its a bit of a relief to see so many ppl coming together over a horrible, life changing, tradagy. I have read a few posts on here befor residing to post myself. And I want to say "Thank You" to Phil and Jo for starting this forum. I know now, i am not alone in this. I have had friends turn their back on me because i do not believe this child. I was always taught, noone could make something like this up. And when someone comes to you with an accusation like this, to believe them. So, sometimes i feel bad not believing her but, i know this did not happen.
I was charged with complicity to rape which was dropped at court but later picked back up as yet another child endangerment charge against me. Meanwhile, my boyfriend is sitting in jail, his bond is way more than mine was, and he has been there for a month and a half now, facing 5 counts of rape on his daughter. She is currently 13 and is saying that this has been happening almost since the time we got custody, which puts her at the age of 12 or under and Ohio law, 12 or under is a mandatory life sentence, thats just for one charge.
Upon doing our own investigation, we found out that she has claimed 5 men in a 4yr period, has raped or molested her. My boyfriend has 4 other children with his ex wife, 3 of which are girls who he had seen and had weekend visitations with all the time. I, myself, have 4 children who lived with me until children services ripped them from my home, 2 of which are the same age as my boyfriends daughter. None of the other girls have ever been touch by him, or anyone else for that matter. The police nor children services care about any of that. They think that he spent his hard earned money and 2yrs of his life just so he could mess with his own child.
We did obtain attorneys right off the bat, who informed us NOT TO TALK TO THE POLICE OR CHILDREN SERVICES!! They also informed us not to talk to each other about it as there is always that fear that i may turn on him and since we have no children together, nor are we married, the attorneys just want whats best for our individual interests. My attorney has also asked me to just stop all communications with my boyfriend and for me to leave him.
Now, i know that children services will not willingly give me back my kids if they know we are still together but i also cant leave him in jail with no one and nothing. Especially knowing he is innocent. But, i will do anything to get my kids back and if that means we can no longer be together, i will sacrifice that but I WILL NOT TURN MY BACK ON HIM nor will i let him sit in jail over a crime he didnt commit.
I dont know if i should say this here or not, but the more thats told, the better you can understand. His daughter, the one making the accusations, is a product of inbred. Her gpa and gma are 1st cousins and she has mental and physical handicaps because of this. If course, children services produced their own physiatrist to perform an evaluation on his daughter, but from everything i have read, they CAN NOT be trusted.
My boyfriends attorney is going to put in a motion to have his own evaluation and exams done but my fear is, they are giving her counseling for being a rape victim as well as coercing her into what to say, when really, they need to be getting this lil girl the help she really needs. They are teaching her that this is ok to do to ppl, to ruin their lives and send them to prison, they are teaching her that its ok to lie, and they have the nerve to say that we abuse her.
I know there is alot that im probably forgetting and as i remember, i will post. Its a bit of a relief to see so many ppl coming together over a horrible, life changing, tradagy. I have read a few posts on here befor residing to post myself. And I want to say "Thank You" to Phil and Jo for starting this forum. I know now, i am not alone in this. I have had friends turn their back on me because i do not believe this child. I was always taught, noone could make something like this up. And when someone comes to you with an accusation like this, to believe them. So, sometimes i feel bad not believing her but, i know this did not happen.
I go to court for them, again, on the 9th for them.
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