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To save repetition, my original thread was at http://www.daftmoo.org.uk/mooforum/s...ape-allegation but I have given the orignal account below.
In 4 days I will be attending my 3rd bail since being accussed of attempted rape back in March. It will be 3 months. usual I get the OIC turning up a week before and altering the bail via a hand delivered letter but not this weekend
I had my first weekend of a very bad low and so given up drinking for now. The bail is timed for my birthday and on a friday.
I have not been charged and I have been consistent and honest to all my recollections. I have been through 5 hours of interviews and to raids at my house but still been calm, open and direct then bailed.
Mum has become quiet and I am worried..she is old and fragile.
I dont know what to think or say.
Has any one got any advice, opinions or thought to offer me.
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Orginal post:
Hi, here it goes....
Background, I'm a very popular teacher and do get a lot of female attention but I lost sexual interest 3 years ago due to hormone medication [side effects - 96% will suffer some if not all - loss of sexual interest, low libodo, impotence, etc] and sometimes I felt like I was gay. I am medium black in colour and have no criminal records etc coz of my job and talk with a posh clear English accent.
I went out one night for a few hours because I was happy about handing in my dissertation. Ended up meeting a couple of girls and I knew but left then but got free entry to a club because I am trusted and liked. As it was my local area I stayed out a bit longer then usual during a work week - big mistake on a work nite.
I walked home a few hours later and ate when I got in and woke in the morning then off to work. I completed a normal day and in the evening I was told the police were looking for me. The allegation of attempted rape!!!!! I volunteered to the police station gave my hair, nails, dna, etc etc and a few hours later I gave an interview with my solicitor present. I answered everything including some of my clothes, what I ate at home where I went etc etc.
They asked me about my hormone tablets and that it must make me frustrated. They asked me how I sustained a minor scratch on my thumb and I said it might have been from feeding the local cat food at nite [which I have a habit of doing] but I did notice the scratch until I got to work. I explained that the hormones actually make me quite sexless if not maybe gay. I was asked if I touched up a girl and I said NO!!. I said it was horrible though for anyone to experience. I was released on police bail.
2 months later I was question again coz the girl said it was me from the photo ID parade. Again I answered all the questions. They showed me CCTV of someone that was of so poor quality that I could not decide if it was me or not. They said they had evidence that I bought a kebab from the only takeaway open 20 minutes from an alleged attack - which is a shared route to my home and the alleged victim. The alleged proof was a till receipt for the total cost of a kebab. Was not shown the receipt at all in the interview.
The final CCTV shows a very poor quality photo of someone going home and behind him a girl comes up from behind and passes him. 1 minute later it is out of range of the camera. The rest is that I went home and she alleges that a man with a foreign accent called hera gorgeous lady and then followed her into the garden because he forgot where he lived and tried to touch her bits up and pulled her hair then left. She said she suffered a minor scratch and slightly red cheek. She said she remembered everything coz she only had 3 pints of cider at a student house party over 3 hours.
After 3 hours of questioning the police asked me why bits of doner meat was found in her garden? I said that I don't eat the stuff and I had food at home ready and that I didn't know where she lived as I would have turned off to go home long before the road further up. There was one witness who was so drunk and 60metres away on the CCTV that he said it was a slim white man.
I explained I respect people's boundaries and would not harm or touch anyone. The interview ended and I was bailed again. To date it has been 3 months. The OIC did come to the house to extend the bail again and whilst chewing gum said its been referred to the CPS.
There is no DNA that has been brought up and no statement shown from the kebab shop staff and no receipt that I bought any food.
So I am accused of attempted rape based on the above. I have not been charged even though my house has been raided twice but there was nothing. They didn't even want the clothes I was wearing that nite.
To save repetition, my original thread was at http://www.daftmoo.org.uk/mooforum/s...ape-allegation but I have given the orignal account below.
In 4 days I will be attending my 3rd bail since being accussed of attempted rape back in March. It will be 3 months. usual I get the OIC turning up a week before and altering the bail via a hand delivered letter but not this weekend
I had my first weekend of a very bad low and so given up drinking for now. The bail is timed for my birthday and on a friday.
I have not been charged and I have been consistent and honest to all my recollections. I have been through 5 hours of interviews and to raids at my house but still been calm, open and direct then bailed.
Mum has become quiet and I am worried..she is old and fragile.
I dont know what to think or say.
Has any one got any advice, opinions or thought to offer me.
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Orginal post:
Hi, here it goes....
Background, I'm a very popular teacher and do get a lot of female attention but I lost sexual interest 3 years ago due to hormone medication [side effects - 96% will suffer some if not all - loss of sexual interest, low libodo, impotence, etc] and sometimes I felt like I was gay. I am medium black in colour and have no criminal records etc coz of my job and talk with a posh clear English accent.
I went out one night for a few hours because I was happy about handing in my dissertation. Ended up meeting a couple of girls and I knew but left then but got free entry to a club because I am trusted and liked. As it was my local area I stayed out a bit longer then usual during a work week - big mistake on a work nite.
I walked home a few hours later and ate when I got in and woke in the morning then off to work. I completed a normal day and in the evening I was told the police were looking for me. The allegation of attempted rape!!!!! I volunteered to the police station gave my hair, nails, dna, etc etc and a few hours later I gave an interview with my solicitor present. I answered everything including some of my clothes, what I ate at home where I went etc etc.
They asked me about my hormone tablets and that it must make me frustrated. They asked me how I sustained a minor scratch on my thumb and I said it might have been from feeding the local cat food at nite [which I have a habit of doing] but I did notice the scratch until I got to work. I explained that the hormones actually make me quite sexless if not maybe gay. I was asked if I touched up a girl and I said NO!!. I said it was horrible though for anyone to experience. I was released on police bail.
2 months later I was question again coz the girl said it was me from the photo ID parade. Again I answered all the questions. They showed me CCTV of someone that was of so poor quality that I could not decide if it was me or not. They said they had evidence that I bought a kebab from the only takeaway open 20 minutes from an alleged attack - which is a shared route to my home and the alleged victim. The alleged proof was a till receipt for the total cost of a kebab. Was not shown the receipt at all in the interview.
The final CCTV shows a very poor quality photo of someone going home and behind him a girl comes up from behind and passes him. 1 minute later it is out of range of the camera. The rest is that I went home and she alleges that a man with a foreign accent called hera gorgeous lady and then followed her into the garden because he forgot where he lived and tried to touch her bits up and pulled her hair then left. She said she suffered a minor scratch and slightly red cheek. She said she remembered everything coz she only had 3 pints of cider at a student house party over 3 hours.
After 3 hours of questioning the police asked me why bits of doner meat was found in her garden? I said that I don't eat the stuff and I had food at home ready and that I didn't know where she lived as I would have turned off to go home long before the road further up. There was one witness who was so drunk and 60metres away on the CCTV that he said it was a slim white man.
I explained I respect people's boundaries and would not harm or touch anyone. The interview ended and I was bailed again. To date it has been 3 months. The OIC did come to the house to extend the bail again and whilst chewing gum said its been referred to the CPS.
There is no DNA that has been brought up and no statement shown from the kebab shop staff and no receipt that I bought any food.
So I am accused of attempted rape based on the above. I have not been charged even though my house has been raided twice but there was nothing. They didn't even want the clothes I was wearing that nite.
Sending positive thoughts to Rik and is Mum x LP
for tomorrow.
x
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